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"I'm a driver . I'm a winner . Things are gonna change . I can feel it  

40Deuce 46M
4635 posts
7/24/2018 5:19 pm

Last Read:
7/27/2018 4:24 pm

"I'm a driver . I'm a winner . Things are gonna change . I can feel it


Remember when Denise Ansel thought her boyfriend was cheating on her because she kept hearing about how he was banging an ugly girl and she didn't realize that people were talking about her ? I do . When she found out do you think she was more relieved that said boyfriend wasn't cheating on her or more bummed that people thought she was ugly ?

I'm in boring/stupid training this week and the instructor gives us a 15 minute break that often turns into 30-45 minutes roughly every hour . So far in to days I think he's covered about 88 minutes of material . I don't think he wants to be there . During one of these many breaks yesterday I read an article about how to be a leader in the field of IT . It lost be pretty much instantly as another title could have been "How to manipulate people for fun and profit" . Which , yes , I know that's what working in an office is about by don't shove it my face - I like to pretend my life isn't totally immoral .

The instructor is an older fella and he often says something like "And then the mayor he would go . . . I mean they would go . . . . a mayor can be a girl . . . . I mean a woman . . . . I mean a lady . . . ."

Anyway item number one was quid pro quo - the idea is that if someone doesn't bend to your will fuck up their life by withholding their data or turning off their network access or something , you know , extortion . Which is fine in the business world , I mean your co-workers are your enemies right ? But it's one of my many (many) pet peeves about being in a relationship . I hate haggling over who's going to do what thing they hate in return for what other thing and a thing to be named later . I realize that I'm being a Pollyanna when I say this but there should be no trading require to be with someone . No wheelin' , no dealin' , definitely no sheepy-shappin' . I guess it works for most people but to me if you're constantly trying to pull a fast one on your partner things aren't working out so good .

Speaking of (sort of) I check out dude profiles sometimes just in case I turn out to be gay and I often get a chuckle out of how many guys have on their profile that they want someone who will trust them . Why don't they just say they want someone gullible that they can gaslight at will ?

Speaking of (not really) a lady in my class was having a meltdown because she found out her BF is cheating on her and I wondered as I often do - how do these guys find the time ? You know how hard it is to get ONE woman to sleep with you ? That's a full time job and them some . And somehow all these guys find the time to wrangle up a second woman ? And a lot of these guys that cheat are nothing special you know ?

I asked TLBW about this , because who better than a lesbian to weigh in on men , and she said that cheating is easy "because of all the skanks out there" . Where are all these skanks ? People talk like there's sluts just hanging from the trees but I've never found one .

The point is (j/k you know my posts are pointless) since it has been a year and half since my last date I figured I'd remind myself that it's not for me . I'll skip the preamble and get to the good part . I went out with a lady last night and you know things were going fine , it was the early stages of the whole thing , and she said to me that she was "really into the metoo movement" and I asked her what that meant and it was one of those things that as SOON as the words were out of my mouth I regretted it . I should have just let that go . I've been single for too long though , I don't know how to regulate anymore .

That just seems like a weird thing to say doesn't it ? Or am I wrong here ? Anyway , it went downhill rapidly from there . She clearly thought I was some kind of macho asshole - which isn't right because I'm a dandy asshole , but not like a fancy lad dandy you know ?

Since things were already going south I decided to express my opinion that all forms of entertainment are wicked because that's billions of dollars that could go to helping people and we just don't do it which definitely didn't win me any points either .

Maybe I'll try another date when I'm 45 . That seems like a good age .

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40Deuce 46M
5725 posts
7/24/2018 5:20 pm

I was going to save the dating story for this weekend when I had more and make it a whole production but nah

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smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
7/24/2018 7:14 pm

Wow has it really been a year and a half already since the lady with the nice rack and lack of sex skills?

I agree that "I'm into the MeToo movement" is a bit strange. Like what does that mean, is she out demonstrating or providing legal support? Or maybe she gives $2.14 a year from Amazon Smile to some organization.


40Deuce replies on 7/25/2018 4:49 pm:
Indeed it has , times flies when you're . . . you're . . . doing whatever it is I do

Mashric 35M
30 posts
7/24/2018 7:15 pm

It sounds like your employer paid $10,000 per seat in that class, and had 10-20 of you guys in it -- Do you know if that trainer's company is hiring? I'd like to get in on that.


40Deuce replies on 7/25/2018 4:49 pm:
Probably but I doubt the employees see much of that sweet , sweet cash

wickedeasy 74F
32404 posts
7/27/2018 11:10 am

i'm with smarty and that's how you should have played it. like a genuinely concerned male wanting to truly understand more than the slogan. i have to say i loathe the slogan and the easypeasy wave your hand in the air if you've been abused thing. seriously?

You cannot conceive the many without the one.


40Deuce replies on 7/27/2018 4:25 pm:
'genuinely concerned male' is what I should put on my tombstone

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