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The in and out paradox...
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The in and out paradox...  Just pondering one mysterious aspect of LesbianPersonals...         . . .  . . . . MajorEasy's Blog... There is no use getting, into heavy petting it only leads to trouble, and seat wetting...... |
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Last week, I met up with a lady from this site...we have met before but never gotten into the physical side of things...not for a lack of interest on my part, it should be said...nevertheless...we chatted, great fun too, and as we did before...parted on friendly-only terms... Then I went out shopping...since it was raining and I needed some stuff... While at the shops...I stuck up a conversation with a woman looking at the same product as myself...and one thing lead to another...we went for a coffee and then as they say, we proceeded and had a rather good time...  Then...on my way home the second time, I thought to myself...in one evening, met a lady from LesbianPersonals...a sex site, yet we never got it on...then met a random lady in a shop...and without having to try too hard...we did what came naturally...  The irony blew me away...is there really any point in being in such a site when the real world is on offer??  Having thought about it a little more...I wonder if the first meeting is the key point in these events...if for whatever reason, there was no mention of physical pleasure together, nor even a hint of it being a choice...then does it mean it will never happen??...the more we see of each other, the more we settle into a 'normal' friendship?? I'm not saying it must happen on the first meet...plenty a time I met a lady from here...and we didn't have time to proceed...but there was alway a "we have to make time soon to meet for some fun" type of suggestion if we were to eventually get to the fun and games..otherwise...seems those just fade into friendship or more simply, fade away... I understand women need to get comfy before they can get physical...but how comfy is comfy enough?? Of course, everyone is different...but surely too much of "getting to know you" degrades the 'relationship' quickly into the 'I can't simply fuck you recreationally now that you know me a little too well" situation...  Look at clubs...where people hook up in a place they can't even hear themselves think...why then is there this need for people in our site to "be friends" first??...can't that wait till we know if the sex is good enough for repeats??  What's your take?? . . . . . . . MajorEasy's Blog...There is no use getting, into heavy petting it only leads to trouble, and seat wetting......
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9/23/2008 9:29 pm |
Men get laid; women get attached.
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Men get laid; women get attached. Even in this site??   Heh heh heh...perhaps so my dear...but surely women who are in a site like ours wouldn't want to complicate things unnecessarily?? Cheers for coming by...  . . . . . . . MajorEasy's Blog...There is no use getting, into heavy petting it only leads to trouble, and seat wetting......
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9/23/2008 11:54 pm |
Thumbs up for you bro.... Cheers, Lucas
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Thumbs up for you bro.... Cheers, Lucas Cheers mate... . . . . . . . MajorEasy's Blog...There is no use getting, into heavy petting it only leads to trouble, and seat wetting......
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9/24/2008 8:17 am |
if nothing happens at the first meeting, quite understandable...but, when meeting for the second time, there should be some verdict from both parties whether it's a go or no-go......with clear cues given naturally...better to be candid about it... ...ultimately, the decision to proceed depends on mutual chemistry at that juncture but there could always be a last minute change of mind, whatever the reasons.... ...yes,the risk is definitely there ... "the more we see of each other, the more we settle into a 'normal' friendship" ...not that it'll be hopeless to expect anything fruitful unless it has already be explicitly ruled out by either party... but that certainly spells a big detour and patience is the only answer, i guess.... in your case, could it be your cues are too subtle to grasp? 
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if nothing happens at the first meeting, quite understandable...but, when meeting for the second time, there should be some verdict from both parties whether it's a go or no-go......with clear cues given naturally...better to be candid about it... ...ultimately, the decision to proceed depends on mutual chemistry at that juncture but there could always be a last minute change of mind, whatever the reasons.... ...yes,the risk is definitely there ... "the more we see of each other, the more we settle into a 'normal' friendship" ...not that it'll be hopeless to expect anything fruitful unless it has already be explicitly ruled out by either party... but that certainly spells a big detour and patience is the only answer, i guess.... in your case, could it be your cues are too subtle to grasp? Finally...you have something to say...heh heh heh...but sweetie...don't forget the matter of a certain email... Anyways...I think you are onto something...even though in our case, she and I have known each other for a while now...we get along...no 'pressure' from either side to proceed...and we never did... Now, it's more friendly than sexual...we chat about everything...quite often about sex too...just not us, if you see what I mean... I do think that being asexual together for 'too long' lessens the spark...sure, a proper relationship can happen from these, but that's not in the cards though...so in this, and quite a few cases...it's unlikely to move in either directions...we'll just be friendly till we drift apart...not wrong...just not ideal in this site... . . . . . . . MajorEasy's Blog...There is no use getting, into heavy petting it only leads to trouble, and seat wetting......
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9/24/2008 9:19 am |
huh.. "not for a lack of interest on my part" and "no 'pressure' from either side to proceed" ...oh what's this? confusing eh... so that translates into no cues, then why the post? esp when u've decided not to steer it forward but let it drift ..... poor case comparison study eh... ok, will work on the other mail..  .... thought give u a respite...
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huh.. "not for a lack of interest on my part" and "no 'pressure' from either side to proceed" ...oh what's this? confusing eh... so that translates into no cues, then why the post? esp when u've decided not to steer it forward but let it drift ..... poor case comparison study eh... ok, will work on the other mail.. .... thought give u a respite...Huh???  Having interest means MUST pressure the other party into action?? Hahahahaha...sweetie, luckily you are not a man...I guess that's how starts... But hey...I'm imagining how many men you have 'pressured' into sex...sounds interesting...You have missed the point of the post then?? Heh heh heh...the post is about me meeting a woman from LesbianPersonals and a woman not from LesbianPersonals...both in the same day...yet I had sex with the woman outside of LesbianPersonals (mind you...it's the first time I met her...)... I didn't pressure her either...it just flowed that way without effort... That still not enough of a comparison?? Pray tell sweetie...what examples are you expecting when I am comparing sex-willingness between a woman from inside the site and a woman outside the site?? What would be more appropriate??  . . . . . . . MajorEasy's Blog...There is no use getting, into heavy petting it only leads to trouble, and seat wetting......
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