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What is a MAN?
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What is a MAN? Recently I had someone on Twitter I follow as a female who like wrestling, she posted how she was supposed to meet up on Tinder with another guy at a bar. The guy failed to even show up, so she was mad as hell about it. I don't blame her either. But then she was so mad, that she posted this... "Men are trash." So I replied back to her, "No men are not trash." And she replied back that the fact that I was offended by her post meant that I was trash and that my post directly applied to me that I was one of the people she posted about. TO which I replied back "If you don't know what the definition of a man, or men, truly is, you have some learning to do." I then told her I understood why she posted that men are trash, but it wasn't correct to say that, because by saying that, she's insulting men. Of course, she didn't get it at all, and still was mad as fuck. Which I understand. When you are upset, anger has a tendency to blind you from the truth and keeps you from comprehending anything, so I left it alone. Ladies, please allow me to help you understand this: MEN ARE NOT TRASH. MALES ARE TRASH, but not a man, or men in particular. A MALE is someone who someone who hasn't grown up and thinks women are their playthings. That they are there to have women service them for their own needs. A male is someone who has no manners and they were not raised properly by other males. In short, a male is a toxic individual who make other MEN look bad. A MAN, or their plural, MEN, is someone that thinks of women as their equal. They treat women with respect, kindness, thoughtfulness, and they have manners. A man will share their emotions with another woman and they were raised properly by other men and women to treat women with dignity, just as they expect to be treated with dignity themselves. In short, a man is not a person that breeds toxicity and make other MEN look like they should. That's the difference. The problem is because there is still toxic males out there, it makes the rest of men look bad and thus, women look at all men as bad. And that's simply not the case. We men understand it's not been easy for women. Generations of toxic males have been bred, and we're learning to treat each others with respect and dignity. It's not easy. At the same time, some feminists think that men with manners are there to suppress them and make them look weak if we protect other women, or treat them with respect, and manners, by opening the door for them or coming to their defense when other men treat them with disrespect. That is not the case. Men look at people as human beings equally. We do not tolerate other people attacking other people, because we want to treat others with dignity and respect. Thus some feminists who go overboard and attack men for being nice to them, or coming to their defense. Men understand that women are strong too, we know this. But we were raised not to see women disrespected. We would not want our mothers and our sisters, or our daughters disrespected, so we want to come to the defense of other women as well. Men protect the abused, the downtrodden, to keep others from being bullied. It effects us that some people like to pray on others to make themselves feel better, so we want to stand up for others. MALES will not understand this. Feminists might, but they will still look upon a man as a MALE, and think he doesn't understand what it's like to be a woman. And while that might be partially correct, that does not mean we cannot empathize with all women and want to help them. We don't want to suppress women! We want to help them! I think that there are many here who do understand it. But some won't. Some...never will. And it's the job of a man to educate others so that maybe one day, there will never be another toxic male out there. It might take generations to breed it out of males before we can start to treat others with equality. Remember, a couple of generations ago, racism was rampant. Now I'm not saying racism is gone. It's far from it. But today, racism is looked down upon by the MAJORITY of people today. We've grown from what used to as racism as normal to it not being tolerated by today's society. Toxicity in males is just being talked about now. It make take 2 or 3 generations to get to a new society to where it becomes the normal to where toxic males will be frowned upon in society as well. We are at a wonderful age right now. It's an age of education. More and more people are growing to become a better society today. And the older forces will resist as much as possible. But when our grandchildren grow up, things will be a lot better than they are now. But for now, we need to learn that things like racism and toxic men are no longer wanted nor are they tolerated anymore. It won't be easy, but I do have hope for the future things will be better than they are now. It's up to the true men in society to do their best to help make that one day become a reality. Who can you call on to save the day? Why none other than... Agent  |
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4/19/2019 9:21 am |
wonderful blog and a great read ..I got that long time ago...I have forgiven those who treated me badly and don't go on to say anything bad about them ...sure its very upsetting for a male to make a meeting and stand the gal up ..but that's not all men who does this ..I have literally met a few guys I call real men on this site ...as for males in general not specific groups but those who are brought up to be users, I can tell right away that they are not worth my time...more women should be choosy and not allow themselves to be treated badly, but in saying that some women invite that kind of behavior which seems to make us all look bad...
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4/19/2019 8:57 am |
Nice
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As always, thanks for reading. And have a happy Good Friday, Passover, and Easter! Who can you call on to save the day? Why none other than... Agent
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