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Sexual Perceptions and Concepts  

tulsaliza 65F
5485 posts
11/7/2007 8:46 pm
Sexual Perceptions and Concepts


Do you have preconceived notions of what your lover or the woman you will have sex with will want? Do you have specific sexual activities that you want to try or do to this person? Are you breaking new ground and wanting to explore and experience new things sexually? Perhaps you're putting your sexual fantasies out there in hopes that some lucky gal will want to indulge you and help you live out some of those sexual fantasies?

I do find it interesting, okay, sadistically amusing, that most of the guys here on LesbianPersonals are married and not getting any kind of sex from their wife or significant other...hey, why not put it out there what you want to try, what the wifey won't do or try in the marital bed!!! How novel, huh?

Here are a few of the notes I've received in the past couple of days and what they are wanting to do and perform as far as various sexual acts on me, with me, to me...

Here is what a married 63-year-old man that hasn't had sex in 2 years wants to do to me: "I would love to suck on one of your nipples and rub your clit at the same time. Then I would like to move down and suck on your clit until you were ready to have me slide it in you and when I am finished I would like to play with your clit again." I clenched my legs together after reading what this guys wants to do to me and my poor, tiny, super sensitive little clitty.
I would let him suck my nipple and ever so gently touch my clit...I would have to show him EXACTLY how to touch my clit because it is so super sensitive that if touched too hard or wrong, I am turned to shit!!

Next we have the thought of someone sucking on my clit...all fine and good if you have me all warmed up...again, if you suck too hard, I get pissed and push you off of the puss...

I doubt seriously I would allow any touching of the clit after either one of us have cum. If I have an orgasm, you can be sure you won't be touching any part of my puss until the waves of ecstasy have passed...in other words, I become so super sensitive all over my body, that I can't stand to be even lightly stroked or touched for about 10 to 15 minutes...just way to sensitized.

My next question is WHERE are you going to perform these sexual acts on me, to me? Have you thought it out that far married man?

Another guy sent me a note today: "New to the dating scene, have not dated in 6 years but experienced in fucking." Okay, what the fuck does that mean? I haven't dated but I've been having sex? He goes on to say what he's looking for in a woman: "I am looking for a woman that likes to tongue tease and be teased during foreplay,a good kisser, good at(69) giving/receiving oral,(I would love to be deep-throated) enjoys various positions, enjoys having her g-spot and clit played with until climax, than fucks me til I climax. I also like to tit fuck." Okay, I'm out because I don't even remotely pretend that I can deep throat anyone...okay, I take that back...I can deep throat a guy that has a 3 inch hard cock that isn't very big around...my jaws don't lock up with that size...anything over that and my jaws lock up...talk about a mood breaker!!!

Another guy wants to be my "friend." Here's what he had to say: "Hi, I really like your profile. You sound like someone who would be fun to be around. I would love to meet you and I think we might be after the same kind of thing. That is friendship. I'm really looking for some friends in the Tulsa area. I work in Tulsa and would like to have someone to go to lunch and get to know them. If we progress to doing other things then great, but I really am looking for friends.Probably sounds like BS doesn't it? Let's do lunch sometime and I'll explain it to you." This guy is married, wants to be my friend and explain things over lunch. What's there to explain? I couldn't find anything in my profile that matches up with this guy, I definitely don't say I'm looking for friends first and sex partners second...I don't want to meet over lunch and have a married guy explain to me what he's wanting to do or even what he's doing on a sex and swingers' site...GOOD GRIEF!!!!

I find it sadistically amusing at the different sexual perceptions and concepts some of these guys have here on LesbianPersonals!!!

Pleasure's a sin, and sometimes sin's a pleasure...
- Lord Byron, Don Juan


MissAnnThrope 63F
11481 posts
11/8/2007 9:06 pm

You know, reading the mail you and others get in this town makes me happy my mailbox here has been empty since I moved here. The men in this town are clueless and think more so than other regions of the country that women are here to serve on their knees and make their fantasies come true. But not their wives, those mothers of their children. Because you know, asking them to suck their dicks or even giving them an orgasm will turn them into sluts.

This is one of the reasons I'm all for premarital sex. Marry the slut of your dreams who's a lady in public and a whore in private and leave the rest of us alone. Instead of marrying someone who is so inhibited you spend your time looking to women who will help you cheat online.


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