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Blogs > Smartikat > More from the Peanut Gallery..

Never make assumptions...  

Smartikat 57F
25 posts
12/15/2008 11:48 pm

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2/1/2011 11:58 pm
Never make assumptions...

Why is, I wonder, that every one of the people that have contacted me and mentioned my interest in BDSM have ASSUMED that I am a bottom?

Instead of asking which is it that I prefer, each one has mistakenly made the assumption that I am a bottom and have approached in such a manner...

Is it me or is this rather presumptious of them? As it is, I in most cases, I ignore them.

Are most women bottoms? I have encountered many Dommes, both Pro and non. And while the majority of tops are male, a great many are female, so why assume?

Is there something in my profile that suggests that I am a sub/slave? Just wondering out loud and venting........

Thanks for viewing
~ Kat ~

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