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Halloween costume  

lala_alldaylong 34F
535 posts
10/6/2009 5:58 am
Halloween costume


I know its weeks off but am I the only one that is thinking about their costume for Halloween? I know lots of people are into the holiday and from what I have garnered from the people I met on this site, the percentage of Halloween revelers is higher than in the general population.

I want a new one, I mean chances are I'll see some of the same people I saw last year, so the catholic school girl uniform, which was real, i wore it all through high school, would not be cool. What else is there? I want to look sexy but not so much that guys are stopping their cars asking me "how much"? Plus I may have to work that night and if I'm allowed to wear it to work has to be somewhat tasteful. If I'm not allowed to wear it to work then since I get out at 11, what I choose can't be too complicated to assemble. For the record, I work in a restaurant as a hostess. Decisions, decisions, what is a girl to do. Any ideas?

stang87306 42M

10/17/2009 9:56 pm

so did you ever make your final decision ?


Up4FunLI 49M
71 posts
10/12/2009 1:47 am

I bet you would look awesome looking like Sailor Moon or one of those Anime characters. What was your final decision Lala?


rm_igoteight48 62M

10/11/2009 7:15 pm

It took me a little time to think, How about "Pebbles" from the Flintstones, she is cute, a little sexy but conservative enough to wear to work?They have several different ones online,just a thought.


lala_alldaylong 34F
96 posts
10/11/2009 6:10 pm

    Quoting  :

other than chains, of what would the costume consist?


rm_RomanBerlin 59M

10/11/2009 8:38 am

I was never into the Holloween custome until a couple years back , when I went out an dwas the one of just a few who didn't have a costume. Now I love it. I'm looking for a sailor suite but class A's.
So you've done the Catholic School Girl, how about a sexy Pirate Girl ?


rm_SirDillsNic 39M

10/7/2009 8:17 pm

How about Lady Jupiter from Watchmen. I can be Rorschach.


Theodora1982 41F

10/7/2009 7:04 pm

That's kind of what I'm talking about. While appealing for private occasions, costumes like school girl outfits act as a magnet for every imbecilic caveman in the room.


rm_dcorleone73 49M
17 posts
10/7/2009 5:37 pm

Ally McBeal? You've got the figure for it. And Ally was a lawyer. If those mini-skirts were good enough for court, they're good enough for the restaurant I'm thinkin'.


rm_05realman21 51M
5944 posts
10/7/2009 2:35 pm

Yes dress as a Llama and cover yourself in honey lol



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johnnyangel694u 64M
326 posts
10/7/2009 1:00 pm

Gypsy, genie, nurse, sexy witch.

Still living in hell!!!!!


lala_alldaylong 34F
96 posts
10/7/2009 8:32 am

    Quoting  :

I guess I'm pretty lucky that this is my biggest concern in life. As for what Stang pasted, think I can pull that look off? As for the contest the prize would be my heartfelt thanks and a cyber kiss, after all, helping one another is what life should be about regardless of monetary or, ahem, physical rewards.....


stang87306 42M

10/7/2009 5:33 am

here is my vote . seems sexy enough to be fun , but pc enough for work


lala_alldaylong 34F
96 posts
10/7/2009 5:00 am

    Quoting  :

had to google Peau d'âne. Donkey Skin???? somehow I don't see that happening, lol, but true, it would be obscure.


lala_alldaylong 34F
96 posts
10/7/2009 4:34 am

    Quoting Theodora1982:
    I understand the attraction of dressing up in order to keep stay in the spirit of Halloween, and the desire to wear a costume that is enticing, but I've never deemed it necessary to wear conspicuous costumes for the occasion. Last year, for instance, I went as a femme fatale, and for that role, a seductive attitude and a conservative business suit (that I wore to work that same day) was sufficient enough to yield the desired dividends.

    I'm loath to degrade myself by wearing a costume that fits into one of several predictable fantasy images, because it makes me feel exceedingly vulnerable, and as if I'm subjugating myself to the opposite sex. To be sure, I've been submissive in the past, and have worn my share of objectifying outfits, but usually I opt for a more subtle approach that suggests that I'm above the inanity and desperation of many of the female partygoers. Beyond the stark contrast, this approach feels empowering, suggests that you're intriguingly complicated, and that you represent something that is not easily dominated. Consequentially, interesting men will find this alluring, and will gravitate toward you.

    Since you're strikingly beautiful, you will have men at your mercy regardless of your costume choice. All that is needed is confidence and an aggressive approach to seduction, which will allow you to maintain the upper hand, allay the fears of those intimidated by your beauty, and reach the desired end of sexual bliss. But, I suspect that such an approach would be seriously at odds with your personality. Indeed, I believe part of the reason why you're inclined to choose a sexier outfit is because it might relieve you of the awkwardness of approaching the desired targets.

    In any case, rather than wearing an outfit that desperately tries to accentuate your beauty, you should try to accentuate your far more appealing qualities: your intelligence, independence, and your sense of propriety.
that's another way to go and perhaps something i'll consider. last year was a rough night of fending off unwanted advances. I think based on the costume every guy thought he had a shot. i'll talk and be nice to anyone and everyone until they do something really crass or stupid. thanks


Theodora1982 41F

10/6/2009 9:21 pm

I understand the attraction of dressing up in order to keep stay in the spirit of Halloween, and the desire to wear a costume that is enticing, but I've never deemed it necessary to wear conspicuous costumes for the occasion. Last year, for instance, I went as a femme fatale, and for that role, a seductive attitude and a conservative business suit (that I wore to work that same day) was sufficient enough to yield the desired dividends.

I'm loath to degrade myself by wearing a costume that fits into one of several predictable fantasy images, because it makes me feel exceedingly vulnerable, and as if I'm subjugating myself to the opposite sex. To be sure, I've been submissive in the past, and have worn my share of objectifying outfits, but usually I opt for a more subtle approach that suggests that I'm above the inanity and desperation of many of the female partygoers. Beyond the stark contrast, this approach feels empowering, suggests that you're intriguingly complicated, and that you represent something that is not easily dominated. Consequentially, interesting men will find this alluring, and will gravitate toward you.

Since you're strikingly beautiful, you will have men at your mercy regardless of your costume choice. All that is needed is confidence and an aggressive approach to seduction, which will allow you to maintain the upper hand, allay the fears of those intimidated by your beauty, and reach the desired end of sexual bliss. But, I suspect that such an approach would be seriously at odds with your personality. Indeed, I believe part of the reason why you're inclined to choose a sexier outfit is because it might relieve you of the awkwardness of approaching the desired targets.

In any case, rather than wearing an outfit that desperately tries to accentuate your beauty, you should try to accentuate your far more appealing qualities: your intelligence, independence, and your sense of propriety.


mornindead 39M

10/6/2009 5:54 pm

the woman from the scarlet letter, alanis morisette as god, kate from lost, santa's little helper, cabbage patch kid, or get a friend and be thing1 and thing2. and for a little extra, there's always carmen sandiago - nerdy, can be a little sexy in a red dress, and entirely classy.


rm_john56503 74M
204 posts
10/6/2009 6:54 am

Im not sure about the latex thing but you might try a sexy looking cat. It can be sext and tasterul at the same time and would be easy to work in.

john


rm_djgeemoney 53M
34 posts
10/6/2009 6:22 am

Latex Catwoman costume!
It will be revealing but tasteful and can be covered with a skirt. The mask will make you feel anonymous. The latex will show your sexy body without showing skin.
Let me know what you think.


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