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Eye of the Beholder
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Eye of the Beholder |
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Looks may get my attention, but it takes the total package in a woman to keep my attention, and in that 1st meeting, they get put into one of three catagories, 1st, a woman I want to have a one nite stand with, or 2nd, a woman that I want more than one nite with, or 3rd, a woman I may want to have an extended relationship with, even if still just a FWBs thing. Is always possible a woman can upgrade herself to #2 or #3, but if the total package is not there, they will never be more than #2 at best. The total package, if RIGHT, can put them into #3, and if really RIGHT, they may just make the BIG leap to #4, which I dont think I have to explain, and rarely, they make it to #5, which is rings & wedding bells. I have made that leap twice, and #4 has happened 5 times in my life.
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1 post 12/30/2014 9:17 am |
I answer with other. I think that chemistry is important when you first meet. You could be a beauty queen but if I don't feel you nothing is going to work out.
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When I meet someone..personality is key...Then of course you want a clean person too! Looks are not as important to me than personality.. Its My Duty 2 Pleez That Booty!!!
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There is definitely something which can't be explained. I'm a dancer in few different dance groups. But when you see whatever it is in motion YOU KNOW IT! Without any doubt whatsoever. And when sitting still you can be totally butt ugly but when you MOVE you can suddenly transform into the hottest thing in the universe. You know what I'm sayin'?   insert exploding bomb image here
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I voted "other", because for me, it's "The Want". I'm getting better at noticing this with age and it's usually to be found in the eyes. It's like, if she wants me, then I'll give her what she wants  Don't take this as an average point of view because I'm normally the oddball.
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