Reset Password
Reset Link Sent
| Blogs > Cuddly_Kitten > KITTEN'S CANDY SHOP |
What women really want~
|
What women really want~ I'm about to tell a huge secret that most women don't want you men to know. Here it goes~ .... OK, We want a man who makes us feel safe and secure. Now, that goes for women over the age of 27 years old. ( Women younger than that are all about looks and sexiness) *Define safe and secure* *Safe ~ meaning that you aren't a wimp. You will defend us against harm. ** If a masked man breaks in our home and you throw me at the man while you attempt to make your getaway?? ** You are the wimp I'm talking about. *Secure~ meaning you have gainful employment and won't be stealing change out of my purse for cigarette money. *also meaning every time your phone rings it isn't a debt collector chasing you down. *also meaning secure in our relationship ~ that you aren't chasing after every thing that has a vagina. I hope this has helped in your quest to understand women. Good luck babes. THANK YOU GUYS FOR FOLLOWING MY BLOG |
||||
|
I could not agree more
| |||
|
Very true, and funny..love how you get to the point and tell it like it is...must be D' ville in ya..I was born and raised there too..lol..home of sassy ladies! Loved u blog!!
| |||
|
Safe & Secure very well defined   Cheers 
| |||
2/6/2016 8:44 am |
Mornin Kitten, shhh..../whisper this guy already knew that. . Been professionally employed for the last 30 years and have always been a protector for my family. But I think you left out a couple of others that are just important; friendship and compatibility. Just like safe and secure, friendship and compatibility go hand in hand with what I do believe a lady does also look for along with manners. I've seen you on some of your late night cams talking back to the guys with no manners. I alway treat my gals as ladies and nothing less. Cheers Kitten
| |||
|
Awesome answers !!!!!!!! THANK YOU GUYS FOR FOLLOWING MY BLOG
| |||
|
Kitten initially yes maybe that is to be expected, but as we get older and people are recirculated we see more and more of Rocks take, and Michael many women find that bad boy exiting and a good project. For some girls its merely a bucket list item, others continue the game. Many people once they finally break free are so broken from staying in the unhealthy relationships that they have psychologically diminished their ability to recognize or maintain a connection with suitable person. Too often both halves are in such a hurry to be attached,no a chance of meaningful development to a lasting attraction was formed, but rather an extension of the one and/or others that failed.
| |||
|
Hello Ms Kitten... Well I am old enough to all ready know what you are telling the younger people. Nice to hear a sweet young lady say what is on her mind! Take Care wish you the best... M.C,
| |||
|
I think you are definitely spot on here. I think Rock also had a very well thought out and reasoned response. Most of the folks here are probably here just to fuck around... And that goes for all things. They may or may not fuck around with your heart, with your life, with their integrity and ambitions, and if you say and do the right things, they might fuck around with you. I am here for similar reasons as Rock. I've tried lots of dating sites, but everyone is so coy and dances around sex, when we all have needs and desires. Here, at least people are out front about the things that make their motors run, and knowing that is actually very useful for those bold enough to just be up front about sex being a major component of most any adult relationship. There are tons of scammers, and legit people who will break your heart. Choose wisely those you let in beyond your walls/guard. As for the "nice guy"/"bad boy" thing, the truth is, this is a dichotomy peddled by pickup artists and ladies' magazines. There is some truth to it, yes, but it is quite plausible to be an unwavering gentleman in public life, while still having the confidence, an air of mystery, and depth of character found in the "bad boy" persona. So if you like to get into bar fights? Okay. Pick the people who are out there trying to prey on woman and smaller men, or creating a general gap in the safety of the drinking patrons. If they are indeed assholes, and it is clear to everyone, you can take out the trash, carefully, and without tearing up things at the bar, and the owners will probably appreciate that. 95% of physical altercations come down to gestures, the perception of aggression, and the will to show the other man that you aren't afraid of their two-bit shit-stirring ways. a calm demeanor switching to adrenalized, swift, decisive, but careful movements (it may take some training or practice to be able to do this) can easily overwhelm most opponents, particularly drunk ones, and set an example for the other would-be-assholes that the place. You don't have to shed blood or break bones to prove that shitty people are not welcome, but in those rare 5%, it helps to have a plan, and the plan should be victory, and then a choice between leaving the scene or staying and being accountable. I tend to prefer the latter, but depending on the demeanor of the folks who run the bar, friends of the jerk you just embarrassed, or local law enforcement, it might be prudent to split and "live to fight another day". Those who prefer to avoid violence whenever possible (I am one of these, though I like to prepare for the worst) can still make a great impression using your words, like civilized grown-ass men. a quick and cutting remark at someone who is getting a little out of control can draw attention to the problem person and back them down in most cases, if you have the wit, convictions to back said wit up, and the will to be a mediator or peacekeeper in tense situations. Practice makes perfect again here, but it is confidence, vigilance, and a commitment to be honorable that impresses people and makes others safe around you, not some implement that escalates a situation to violence or criminality (speaking of the premature brandishing or use of weapons here). Finally, it is okay to be a good listener. Some women will probably take advantage of the opportunity to unburden themselves, and why not let them? It's not like they are kicking your dog or taking away your masculinity. They are simply venting, and every human being on Earth finds a way to do this, or they will have unexpected breakdowns in function and stability that do not turn the desired mate on in most cases. (note that I said unexpected here - there are plenty of people with emotional or mental issues who are simply honest about their problems with the right people and then the possible situations where said person has difficulty or even a meltdown are understandable and can be prepared for). 5 (or 10, or 20 or however long you find reasonable) minutes of your time can make someone else's day a little easier at virtually no cost to you. Furthermore, I guarantee that for every lady who "friendzones" you when you treat them with respect and dignity (we are talking about day-to-day public life, here), there is another lady just as interesting who will find your ability to be understanding (or even seem understanding, as you may be confused by the emotions or even the dialogue a woman is using) to be a quality that makes her want to be around you, to appreciate and understand you, and this is a good basis for any interpersonal relationship, carnal or platonic. Anyway, I'm not quite sure why I went off and wrote a novella here, but I hope my 2 cents is helpful to someone who maybe has not had the quality of relationships that some of the above concepts can help to inspire to be.
| |||
|
Following 3 Fire Manhandlers lead , which by the way , couldnt have said it better myself; it is hard to focus on the prize , when SEX is flying out of every corner . I agree with Kitten as well , about what actually goes on in a womans head while the guys are sending dick-pics and rubberizing their wrists !!!! They want stability , on the site and in the "Real" world !! Granted ,as "Rock " broke it down to % , we are all sex fiends , but on different levels . Some of the profiles of women i've read are down right Freakin perved like mens . Until i joined some of these sites , I thought women were goody2shoes ,who would never in a million years let anyone know what was Really going on in their minds . Turns out , some women are Super Freaks !!! As i wander way off course of the original post by Kitten , i turn my browser down the next perverted road , and look back at "What the Hell was I thinkin anyway " ???? ?* happym; 
| |||
|
Women want what men want, someone they can depend upon. Not to hover over them but to be there when they need to be there. Some people are not there even when they are physically present. Life is too short.
| |||
|
HOLY SHIT !!!! WHO KNEW !?!?! This changes everything... LOL - just kidding. Those points are so very true.
| |||
9/22/2016 11:51 am |
I glad I read this..I do believe you are correct!! Imagine that!! Toss in passionate kisses and playful foreplay.....Life is good!!
|
Become a member to create a blog
