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Monday thoughts.  

gymrat1974 49F  
1057 posts
7/18/2016 10:20 am
Monday thoughts.


So I just got blown off by a guy a few minutes ago. He wanted to meet me last week, only it wasn't a good day for me. I'm fairly certain he decided that I just wasn't interested and wanted to play games and waste time. That wasn't the case. I was busy. I guess he decided his time was more precious than mine. I guess he decided I should drop everything and run for him and when I didn't, I wasn't worth his time or serious enough. I got that impression then from something he said, but I figured I would text him today and say hello. And I did, and he responded. I asked him how he was, and he informed me he was fine. That was it. No follow up questions. No reciprocity on the pleasantries. That's fine. He's not interested. And I didn't talk to him long enough to become invested in him. But I hope someone somewhere along the way points out that he won't get very far with this attitude. Guys, if you are interested in a woman, no one ever said you had to chase her forever, but it doesn't mean she isn't interested if she doesn't drop everything and run when you call her. I'm neither lonely nor desperate. I don't have dates every day of the week, but I'm not alone all the time either. Some guy giving me the cold shoulder isn't going to break my heart. But from what he told me, he was new at this. There are going to be plenty of women in his future who aren't going to be at his beck and call, and I imagine he will spend many lonely and bitter nights and weekends wondering why his phone isn't perpetually blowing up for all the times he gives his number out.

Timetraveler2 61M  
159 posts
7/18/2016 11:11 am

Totally his loss, good things come to those that wait. The sooner people realize that they aren't the only one in the world that matters, the better it will be for all of us. That being said, you are most surely worth whatever wait there would be.


hrdallnght4u 67M

7/18/2016 11:46 am

Well if He was a Gentlemen..He would accept a Woman's request..

You can't expect to be Old & Wise..If You were never Young & Crazy!!!


1Paul3834 62M

7/18/2016 12:23 pm

There was a time when men realized that they were designed to pursue a woman, and she was designed to be the responder. But today, men can't handle a little rejection so when she responds with something that hurts their ego, they get annoyed or bitter.


Allnfun1111 60M
30 posts
7/18/2016 12:54 pm

His loss, plenty more to come by.


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