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How to Seduce a Woman  

nawtyinaus 46F
128 posts
4/17/2016 5:47 pm
How to Seduce a Woman


Sex starts in the brain. Every single human on Earth has unique brain chemistry, therefore every woman on Earth is going to respond differently to your advances. Which makes all of this pretty fucking complicated? Not exactly. Hang in there, keep reading...

Sex starts in the brain. What does that mean exactly? Being that this is a website geared towards helping people get sex, let's tailor the subject matter.

Get to know your "mark" (the mark refers to who you're trying to get into bed, for you slow ones). Let's start with the profile. What does she remark about herself? Are the remarks physical? Mental? Action based? How she talks about herself is possibly how she's going to best respond to you. If she talks physical, try giving her physical, etc.

But guys, sex starts in the brain. So, you're best to remark about something small, typically unnoticeable. If a girl thinks you're paying attention to her as an individual, she's probably going to be MUCH more receptive to your flirtation.

Personally, my profile is more mental, therefore I always appreciate when a man notices and makes a mental note to me that he appreciates. However, a super vague and general note about my profile may come across as insincere, even if the guy truly means it. For instance, "you stand out amongst the crowd to me" is a great line - BUT if there's no follow up it seems insincere. Why do I stand out? "You stand out amongst the crowd to me, because I appreciate the way you write about your passions, you seem very intelligent." Done - the guy could look like fucking Shrek and at least get a reply (even Shrek gets the girl at the end). I don't really describe myself physically and guess what, I don't respond to your physical flirtations - unless they're truly unique.
*MAKE US THINK YOU'RE PAYING BETTER ATTENTION THAN ANYONE ELSE.

But hey, sex starts in the brain. Your attitude dictates a lot of how successful you are in life and guess what, in the bedroom. So, if your dumbass is saying on your profile or in messages that you're not sure this site works, everyone is a fake/flake, this is a waste of your time - THAT TRANSLATES TO I'M A WASTE OF YOUR TIME. Am I going to want to meet you? Fuck no. If you think it's a waste of your time, it is.
*KEEP A POSITIVE FUCKING ATTITUDE

And oh yeah, sex starts in the brain. No matter what you're looking for here, your goal is to be successful in that endeavor. GUYS - this couldn't be more important, always, always, be yourself. There is someone out there on your level no matter what that level is. If you're funny, be funny...if you're shy, go ahead and let them know - "I tend to be shy, but I'm really interested in you, tell me more about yourself" . Great sex --mind-blowing sex is about connection. Even if you only want a one-nighter, what's wrong with it being amazing? I mean, aren't there fleshlights for days when you don't want to talk?
*ALWAYS, ALWAYS BE YOURSELF

Exercise, take care of your health, take care of your mind, work to understand and manage your insecurities and no matter what, BE YOU.

That covers a few of several aspects to seducing a woman...there should be some talk on coming on too strong in here somewhere. Guess we'll save that for next time. Til then...

- Naughty is nawtyinaus

My experiences, stories and photos for your enjoyment @ nawtyinaus


Needaltlsomthn2 58F
709 posts
4/17/2016 6:16 pm

Very well written. I predict that only about 50% of the males that read it can actually comprehend it's importance. I hope for more though !

If you don't stand for something , you will fall for anything !


nawtyinaus replies on 4/24/2016 12:45 pm:
ha...if just one poor soul is helped here today, we tried...we tried. Thanks for your comment!

SingleItalianGy2 52M
1205 posts
4/17/2016 6:30 pm

Hi....

First thanks for sharing your blog. I must admit I opened your blog based on the title of the post JUST to read what you had to say. Yes, this is a site to help people connect for all kinds of reasons. Unfortunately, a majority of the users either are not serious (many have fake or duplicate profiles) or can't separate the fantasy from reality. Myself I have been a member of the site for 16 years on and off and value people like yourself who are REAL and not afraid to be themselves. However, I did enjoy this post and your point of view and I couldn't agree with you more. I enjoy getting to know people and how they use there intellect......and if they allow me using that knowledge to take a peek into there sexual side as well.

As a standard member I can't access your entire profile so that kind of sucks as I would enjoy getting to know more about you. After a bad experience with my first meet from this site when I first joined I know longer use the site for meetings. Over time I have come to meet some great people and use the site to chat and explore fantasy through chat. Not sure if you venture into the chat rooms, if you do please come and say Hi by visiting me in "Living the Dream !!!!" I have a lot of members from Texas frequent the room that you might find worthy of your time.

Again.....Thanks for sharing your blog.... SIG





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Mrmattman 64M  
681 posts
4/17/2016 9:20 pm

thanks professor !!


nawtyinaus replies on 4/24/2016 12:47 pm:
Ha! Thank you for stopping by.

stretchout 63M
240 posts
4/18/2016 8:48 am

As far as I know, the term 'mark' is the language con artists use for the slower person they're going to take advantage of. Is that really what we should be modeling?


nawtyinaus replies on 4/24/2016 12:48 pm:
Not the best description I could've used, but it's what came to brain at the time. Thanks for your comment.

Rivieralover06 47M
2 posts
4/25/2016 4:44 pm

Great read; thank you for sharing that with us.

We men tend to lose sight of this sometimes, and I am glad you were able to remind us that women will read through your bullshit really quickly lol..

Brains are the sexiest thing in a woman... well maybe after the eyes...

Thanks again...


nawtyinaus replies on 4/28/2016 11:29 am:
Thank you for the nice comment!

anastasia666 46F
2231 posts
9/3/2016 7:01 am

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ellefromeliz 45F
1 post
3/19/2017 7:25 am

Spot on. Its uncanny, that so many of us women know this beyond a doubt, yet men, after centuries, still flash dick pics, ask what we are wearing, and want to dive into our crotches.

They say chivalry is dead. But by and large, its totally misunderstood, ignored, or just lost on the poor sapiens.

But you are so right, seduce the mind, and the body swoons. And when we find that, life is just grand.


dirtylawyer24 49M
16 posts
4/15/2017 3:56 pm

I wish you were still blogging


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