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Allow Me To Introduce Ourselves.... Growing up as a Military Brat... my parents had very strict rules in the house and outside the house. Be in before the streetlights came on, complete homework before going outside, chores, etc.. typical household tho. With my Pops being in the Military we moved around a lot so I have seen a lot of different places. Meeting all types of people and learned early about how to pick out shady people. When I started dating I dated different girls not just 1 race because of a stereotype. I dated whomever kept me happy. I was very attracted to white or Asian women. I dated a few black girls in my time but it just wasn't there or they only thought about themselves and or couldn't be with 1 person. After my heart was crushed I turned to my Moms for some advice. She told me that you are not committed to just only 1 person until you say "I Do". Always keep a woman happy make her laugh tell her jokes, bring her flowers unexpectedly. Hold the door open for them, go for walks... but make sure that you as the Man is walking closest to the road and her on the opposite side. I ask why? We are going to the same place what does it matter what side I'm on? She told me because if a car loses control you can push her out of harms way. Therefore guaranteeing that she stays with you. And if you date a girl with a and decide to stay..... you raise their as your own. Collapse Keeping this in mind, I dated a few girls at a time nothing serious but I let them know up front what the deal was. I don't belong to no one. I'm young and I'm not settling with just one. Because I don't know if you are gonna do the same. So. Growing up I was more attracted to Asian and White girls and they had to be shorter than me. And act like you got some sense in your head. I have also dated women that was 15-20 years older than me when I was in my 20s. Figure I would get me a cougar. But that didn't even work, so I just quit looking. Decided to concentrate on myself and my future. When I met my wife I had just gotten out of a bad relationship. Wasn't looking to jump right into another one. There was the age difference... 10 years different. But we had a lot of things in common. We liked cars music dancing walks on the beach under the moonlight. 10 years later and I love her like the first day I met her. We had others try and come in between and try and cause drama but we overcame that hurdle and many more after that. Which all it did was make us stronger as a couple and we could both see what the outside haters are trying to do to us. We use to have your typical relationship. I worked she stayed home. But things have changed along with the times. We have openly talked about our fantasy with each other. So now we have opened the door to maybe another journey in our marriage. Not to ever be closed minded but allow your mind to be open to new adventures. As we get older we still like to have fun like 2 high school love birds that have the house to themselves because Mommy and Daddy are out of town. Remember to ALWAYS PLEASE YOUR LADY FIRST! Don't worry about you.... do her and make sure she is dripping wet before your get your first nut! The Husband |
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