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Want to produce porn? In BC? And make money?
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Want to produce porn? In BC? And make money?  Well, I'm gonna go out on a limb right now, and say if you're on here, you're probably a pretty sexual person, possibly kinky, or a straight up, you have the makings of a porn star.... There is a few things that set actual Porn Stars apart from rest... I'm sure there's more, but I have found the following: Professionalism Almost seeming like desensitization to others, but really, even though it's a sexy business, if you're diussing your first on camera DP and staying 100% business while you're nervous as hell inside - that takes ladyballs. Or dudeballs. Whatever spheres, gonads, you got 'em. Treat others in the industry like family, and with respect like you'd give any normal person. We make fiction, and fantasy. But you're a real person. Don't get caught up. Desire We all desire happiness. And . And sex and/or love. And companions, even just a few close s. As adults, we're all familiar with losing companions in way or another. You have to really want to be in the adult industry. I can't tell you the right reason, cause that's different and complex for every; But I can tell you the wrong reasons. Be healthy, love your inner freak, go to a gym, take care of you sex machine, and more importantly the computer running it in your head. Be passionate about wanting to work in the industry and be a complex person. You'd be surprised how many porn stars are also authors and professionals carrying PhD's, and tend to invest their wisely. Be built for the Industry I have dated s (never hired ). Being an sex worker on any level is far harder on a person than working in porn. I believe 99% of people ing are hurting themselves in doing so. 1% of them.... the s that are damaged in just the right way, or from their very genesis are made to do it, embrace it, and not let it destroy them, they will use it like a powerful magic tool (I'll explain this more if we ever meet).. Again, these folks are a rare breed, and I have tremendous respect for the shit they put up with, but I am in awe of that 1%. I myself have only met 2 maybe 3 's' in my life that weren't utterly consumed by the dark side of it. That all being said... Porn, the lighthearted sex-as-entertainment cousin... also isn't for every. You need to be mentally prepared for it. It can be fun, yes. You can make alright if you really commit to it. But what about mentally? Would you date in the industry? Yes, no? Why? Can you handle your partner sleeping with a bunch of people, even if it's an act? Are you secure enough in yourself and how awesome you are to know that your partner, no matter how much fun (in some cases) they may have on set or with another partner, they are committed to you, and can separate sex, love, and friendship for themselves the way you can? Or can you? If you wouldn't date in the industry, would you expect a partner of yours to accept all these things? Sex isn't hard to find. Companionship isn't hard either. But the smarter and weirder you are... true love and acceptance has to come from within and then you'll meet some that is not only on your same wavelength, but right there with you and you'll give each other power. Until then it can be a lly road. I've been interested in sexuality, dabbled in witchcraft, fumbled my way through early somes an with great anticipation (and reward, physiy and spiritually) and eventually orgies, and have always been comfortable with my sexual being. Having an for a partner never bothered me; She was an actress at the very least. I've also had the pleasure or befriending the 1% that are more like spellweavers, truly built for the craft. I can have sex as a powerful form of nearly pleasure always, even when it's not to serious; A couple of adults fucking the shit outta each other for the hell of it for as long as it lasts is great! and feels awesome. But it's not passion and love. You have to be mature emotionally beyond your , and be built to work here. You need to know yourself, because even if you DESIRE certain things (like wanting and sex, not knowing or thinking if you can separate love from sex), if you are not BUILT for it, all of it, and committed to it, then acting in porn can do damage to your soul. Much in the way covering up trauma with drugs and numbing yourself, then turning to ing to for the drugs can do severe damage to most. I seek Professionals who have a desire to work in adult film, and are built for it. If you are in the ing business and want to get out... I've lived on the streets for , recently battling with overcoming some unfortunate events in my life that sent me off course. But Ive learned, gained compassion, strength and direction and come out of it. If you got the looks and the brains, I know you got the balls to do the work. If you've read this far, and life what I have to say, then read on. I desire to start an Adult Entertainment family, here in Canada, a nerk. I can't give away too much of my business plan until I have potential artists sign NDA's etc; This company, this family will be founded on ideals that embrace what we all are, those that are meant for the business, and nurture it, so where you work, the people you work with, even the industry itself, will feel like home. But there's a twist. I can't get into here; I have a IT background, also video, music production & drama experience since I was young. I've owned & operated small and medium size businesses as well as birthed a corporation to support the framework for an online social nerk. I have project management skills. I'm also a kinky old hool but somehow classy weirdo that treats every with respect. I've even run a simple porn site many ago, This project will be large. It's Porn, yes, but much more than that. I need good looking (and well endowed) men (not many, I have actors already) to start with. I need attractive women, Canadian women. From BC. We will operate in the Okanagan to begin with; But busses are cheap and most people drive; I am interested in meeting any who wants to hear my business plan, and even more interested to hear what the community we build can bring to the table beyond ass and titties. I will need carpenters, electricians. Possibly people who happen to have space to donate for facilities. Contact me, we'll set up a coffee date somewhere, in person. I'll bring an NDA, I'll explain my business and marketing plan, and you'll be sold. And we will be starting fast, before some else steals my idea. I look forward to hearing from any interested. Sincerely, Chris Ørmr |
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