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LOL, I love that phrase, "fluid bonding" may I use it in my future dating?? I have 'fluid bonded" with many women in my past, in fact I have so rarely been requested to wear a condom, that all I currently have are far to old to use safely. I would never refuse to use one tho, but once the gal tells me she doesnt care, well then they get put away to never be seen again by THAT gal. I have never caught anything from anyone, nor have I ever gotten anyone preggers. The 2nd is due to my 1st wife who was totally freaced by the idea of getting preggers, and requested I be snipped, and still she used BC just to be sure ! SO have never had THAT worry, and as long as the gals I choose to be intimate with dont have any STDs and believe that I dont either, well ...I will need very few condoms in the future either.
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i actually have never met a guy who said, "here, honey, you want me to put this on?" about the condoms...from their end... if that is the first time, and i really don't know their background, i would request 'em to put it on, but somehow most men are very reluctant to use the rubbers...some sort of complaining always going on in the background...something about size...something about the feeling...or something else whatever they must complain about...maybe they senses that i am not completely trusting about them...i don't know...
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We have a saying in motorcycling atgatt ALL the gear all the time . there is no excuse ,safety first. things today cannot be cured with a simple antibiotic .Even if supposedly monogamously coupled you cannot trust in clean bill of health if they had sex with someone on the side the day after they got tested .there are latency periods between exposure and positive tests and symptoms , some std never show symptoms just ruin the body slowly . The condom would help all the 2 pump chumps last longer than 20 seconds maybe .Fromwhat i've heard most should double up to make sure the woman gets some pleasure at all lol.
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7/16/2018 5:06 pm |
When I met my 2nd wife, in the mid 80's, condoms were for protection from pregnancy. I remember hearing about AIDS and being so glad I'd met her before it became an epidemic. When we got divorced in 2011 I was blown away by all the women that demanded I wear a condom, but there were a lot, nurses included, who didn't give a shit. I got tested right before I quit swinging and I'm clean.
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at the risk of sounding cliché, no glove, no love. i'm an advocate of regular testing mainly because i want to be aware of my own health status before engaging in any intimate activity; don't want anyone to accuse or lay blame on me. people have to advocate for their own health and if that means telling dude to wear a condom, then do. if he won't, then i don't. there was a time or two when i would cave to the pressure to 'not ruin the moment' but those days are done. i don't do anything i don't want. now having said all that, there was one young, fun boy, a regular trusted sex partner and there were a couple of times we did forego the condom. but again, there was a mutual understanding, trust, communication in place beforehand.
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