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The Pursuit of "that" Single Guy is Real  

iwantyourbigbutt 46M
10 posts
6/26/2018 6:15 pm
The Pursuit of "that" Single Guy is Real


The subject of this blog addresses a theme common to the profiles of many of the female profiles I've come across on here, I.e., the search for that that truly single man [on LesbianPersonals].

To get to the bottom of this, it would be a proper to ask LesbianPersonals men if any of them would in all honesty identify as truly single.

Or may be, I guess an initial matter would be to define what being single entails:
1. If a man truly has no wife or girlfriend but has ONE fuck buddy, is such a man considered single?

2. If a man has no wife or girlfriend but has more than one fuck buddy, is such a man single?

OR
3. Does being single boil down to the basic definition of no wife, no girlfriend, no fuck buddy either? Which brings me to the next point, how many men are truly on here seeking just ONE sex partner, I mean, in all honesty? That is, if u found someone on here and you Two kicked it off, would you [the man] quit looking on here (or elsewhere) in all honesty?

One thing is for certain men, more so than women, are by nature polyamorous and yes more sexminded than women are (--- and no I've not taken any scientific test to prove this. Tis just an acceptable fact.) If we can agree at least on the first part of this statement, then a question is how would most men act when placed in an arena (such as LesbianPersonals) filled with potentially horny women? Would most dawg try to grab as many women he possibly can or would dawgs attempt to lead the monogamist lifestyle that society (and women) insist is the right way to go?

I conclude this post without positing any answers but only questions left open for folks to feed their minds and come to their possible conclusions. In short, is a website such as this the best forum for women to seek 'single men'? Are such women ignorant of how most men operate or is it truly possible that a woman is more likely to find a single man on sex-themed website such as this than on a non-sex-themed website?

japaneseass 56F  
50231 posts
6/26/2018 6:49 pm

in my opinion, i would say....no wife, no significant others, but fuck buddies, you are still single...

but that's being said, i still want to know how many fuck buddies you currently have...that number of your fuck buddies may or may not influence my choice to pick you as one of my fuck buddies...

to me fuck buddies are occasional booty call type thingy...no date or anything like that, but you do have sexual relationship with them occasionally...and if you are hopping though one night stand to one night stand...i don't consider it is a fuck buddy...that's just one night stander i would call...


japaneseass 56F  
50231 posts
6/26/2018 6:49 pm

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superbjversion2 68F  
24388 posts
6/26/2018 7:03 pm

So, basically, all us women should go some place else?

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


DonnaChang 54F
212 posts
6/26/2018 7:08 pm

    Quoting superbjversion2:
    So, basically, all us women should go some place else?
That is exactly what he is implying. He doesn't want to say it for fear of alienating any potential "fuck buddies". He's not alone though. I get messages from male types all the time telling me to go somewhere else. I just block them.


Yours_4A_knight 59M

6/26/2018 9:07 pm

I have found that even finding one woman on this site that I am interested and is interested in me to be a daunting task, though it could be that I am single in the strictest sense (no regular partner of any kind) and I am not searching for anything more committed than lets make plans for my next weekend off. I don't see how people find more than one partner, it boggles my mind.

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.


doctorfit002 51M
53 posts
6/26/2018 11:17 pm

I totally agree with your post. Great post.


ManneeedsWoman 57M

6/27/2018 4:59 am

I consider "single" to be a person with no significant other or steady fwb.

I am single - not married, no significant otjer, no fwb - and like other men have commented I am looking to meet one woman. I dont have time for multiple partners.


fiyin123 38M
4 posts
7/2/2018 6:13 am

The Pursuit of quotthatquot Single Guy is Real it is very real. infant not that hard to find even


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