Squirting 101
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Posted:Oct 20, 2015 1:08 am
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Squirting 101 (Thanks to YUMYUM)
FEMALE EJACULATION 101 (SQUIRTING)
The ejaculate is very much like prostrate fluid. It is usually clear, or milky and as thin as water. It does not have the look, smell or taste of urine. It is almost odorless. The taste varies, depending on the time of the month and diet, and possibly other factors, such as amount of stimulation received prior to ejaculating or time since the last ejaculation. It can vary from an almost honey sweet, sour, bitter, or a combination of these tastes.
Even though it is ejaculated from the urethra, it is most definitely not urine. It is absolutely impossible to pee during a orgasm unless there is a weak pubococcygeus muscle. This is very important, and it is important for the female and her partner to both understand this. The pubococcygeus muscle contracts when terminating a stream of urine, and is the muscle which contracts during orgasm. This contraction helps prevent retrograde ejaculation (ejaculation back into the bladder), and of course prevents the bladder from draining during orgasm.
I think there are two major problems women face that prevents them from the immensely enjoyable experience of ejaculation. They are the female's mental attitude, and their partners inability or unwillingness to spend the time and effort during lovemaking and to learn the necessary techniques. We will address both of these problems and the solutions here.
The ejaculation is done through the urethra. This is the same tube that is used for urination. It is located outside the vagina, between it and the clitoris. The fluid is water like, and non- lubricating. In no way does ejaculation improve the chances of conceiving, it offers no lubrication, and is dumped outside of the vagina. The only conceivable purpose of female ejaculation is for pleasure. And the pleasure is intense, in many cases far surpassing the best orgasm's.
Often ejaculation takes place during both a clitoral and a vaginal orgasm (yes there are two type of orgasms, clitoral and vaginal, but often orgasm is a combination of the two), giving the female extreme pleasure, sort of a triple whammy. Sometimes after ejaculation the female will virtually pass out from the intense feelings.
It can be argued that since the only reason that females can and do ejaculate is for pleasure, then there should be no reason for them to not do so, and as often as they please. It is one of the safer sex acts, since in most cases it can be triggered with fingers alone. Ejaculating from intercourse is more difficult, especially when performed from the missionary position, but still possible.
1. Wash hands well. Trim fingernails. Make sure that the thumb, and first two finger nails do not extend past the fingertips. Trimming them as far back as possible would be best. Make sure that there is no dirt or crud under the fingernails.
2. Place a towel on the bed. A surprising amount of fluid can be released during female ejaculation. Compared to a male it can be like a water cannon instead of a water pistol.
3. Have some K&Y Jelly handy. At some point additional lubrication may be necessary, even if she is having heavy orgasms and climaxes.
4. Set aside enough time. The first successful ejaculation may take from 10 minutes to over an hour.
5. It may be wise to exercise your hands, fingers, and arm for several days prior to this exercise. The motions necessary can become quite tiring after a while if you are not in good physical shape.
Before beginning the first time, discuss it. Let her know that you are striving to give her an ejaculation. That female ejaculation is perfectly normal, and a wonderful experience for both of you. Convince her that there is nothing to be embarrassed about or ashamed of. Explain that just prior to ejaculation, she most likely will feel like she is about to pee. This is a difficult point for many women, as they will immediately draw back. Convince her that it is normally impossible to pee during an orgasm, and that the feeling is simply the first sign she is about to ejaculate.
Since the movement of the fluid through the urethra will initially feel exactly like when she starts to pee, this is very important. The reflex to stop peeing will immediately abort the ejaculation, so she needs to be told to relax, and allow the fluid to pass. In other words when she feels like she is about to pee, she should go ahead and pee. Only it really won't be pee, it will be an ejaculation, and within a couple of seconds it will be very obvious to her that this is something quite different. Once she knows the feeling, she will be able to push it out once it starts, with astounding results. It is best for the partner to be sitting between her legs at this time, else she may overshoot the towel or even wet the far wall.
Once she has ejaculated, rejoice with her. Don't make fun, or a joke. If you do it may be the last time she will be able to ejaculate, at least in your presence. Unlike a man, this is not the end. You can continue, and she may well have multiple orgasms and ejaculations with further stimulation.
Start slow. Use typical foreplay. You may want to start with her on her back. Stimulate the clitoris. This can be done with a moist finger, or with your tongue. Performing cunnilingus while rubbing her breasts with your hands can be quite stimulating for her. At any rate, continue clitoral stimulation until she is lubricated.
At this point slide two fingers into her vagina. Allow them to move along the front wall of the vagina. You should encounter an area about 2 inches in, which should be somewhat enlarged. This is the G spot. It lies directly along the urethra, and is located almost directly behind the clitoris. Slowly stroke this area. It should start becoming more enlarged.
Ejaculation is almost always triggered by stimulating the G spot. Clitoral stimulation can often assist in helping her reach an ejaculation, and also can make it more intense. But stimulating the G spot is usually necessary at least initially. Once she starts ejaculating easily, she may find that clitoral stimulation alone is sufficient.
Stroking can be done a number of ways. The two fingers can rub the area as a unit, or they can take opposite strides, similar to walking. A third method involved sliding the two finders out a fraction of an inch, and pushing them back in, similar to the in- out motion of intercourse, but with smaller strokes. Initially pace the stimulation somewhat slow. Alternate with clitoral stimulation either with the thumb, other hand, or mouth/tongue. Also try simultaneous stimulation of the clitoris and G spot. Watch her reactions.
Simultaneous may be too intense for some but necessary for ejaculation for others. Take your cues from her. When she starts bearing down, and you feel the vagina contract, begin pumping rapidly. When she is in the middle of an orgasm, stimulate the clitoris at the same time, and pump the G spot gently, but very rapidly. Talk to her. Say, "your getting it, go for it, don't worry, relax and let it come" or other similar words. She may need reassurance that if she drenches you, you will not be upset. Tell her how erotic you find it for her to ejaculate. Make her comfortable with both you, and the idea of ejaculation.
This actually is not the best position. If she does not succeed after a short time, have her roll over on her stomach, and get up on her knees. You will find stimulating the G spot much easier in this position, and she will most likely respond much better. With the two fingers turned down, slide your two fingers back into her vagina. Find the G spot and continue stimulating the G spot. You may use the other hand to stimulate the clitoris. If after a couple of orgasms, using rapid pumping on the G spot during orgasm, she still has not ejaculated, then turn the hand around, putting the thumb into the vagina.
The thumb will likely not reach the G spot, but don't worry, it should come up to meet the thumb during orgasm. Take the two fingers and lay them down on the clit. Allow the entire curve between the thumb and forefinger to lie along her from the vagina to her clitoris, and begin pumping with the thumb, and rubbing the clit at the same time. When she starts an orgasm, start pumping the entire hand rapidly. At this point she will most likely ejaculate.
The trick is to massage the area where the urethra comes out, while stimulating the clitoris and G spot. This will help to override the feeling she is about to pee, and allow her to let it pass.
Be aware that the female is not only capable of multiple orgasms, but also multiple ejaculations. It is not unusual for her to have from 3 to 5 ejaculations before depleting her supply of cum. Once she has ejaculated one or more times, you can continue with intercourse. Entering from behind will stimulate the G-spot more easily than missionary style, and often additional ejaculations will occur during intercourse. Even if they don't, she will be highly excited, and very sensitive. The final result will most likely be the most intense and pleasurable sex she has ever had.
Part 2….additional information and techniques….
FEMALE EJACULATION AND THE G-SPOT - SUREFIRE TECHNIQUES
Guys are usually up for sexually pleasing their honeys, and most men approach female ejaculation for the first time with an open mind. But if you are called upon to actually help a woman ejaculate, you might feel uncomfortable because you aren't sure what to do or you don't understand how female ejaculation works.
Stimulate The G-Spot
Now that you know where the G-spot is, here is a yellow road sign to guide you when you begin to stimulate her G-spot:
Warning!
Sensitive Area!
Proceed Slowly!
These first few techniques are not all that erotically thrilling for her or you, but they will help you understand where her pleasure points are, and help her to become aware of the sensitivity of her G-spot. They are great techniques to use when you first begin to stimulate her G-spot, and they require some preliminary stimulation, for example, using oral sex.
If oral sex is not a part of your foreplay, stimulate her clitoris (lightly) with your fingers. If rapid vaginal stimulation with your fingers is your usual method, try lightly easing her vulva and clitoris with your fingers instead, then begin.
Come here, honey! This method is a basic way to stimulate her G-spot. After you have aroused her with some slow, teasing oral sex or foreplay, slowly slip your finger into her wet and ready vagina. Slide carefully along the upper wall (versus the bottom) of the vagina until you feel the curl of the G-spot's tail. Once you find the tail, push firmly and massage it. A variation on this massage method is a "come hither" approach.
Play me, baby! Repeat the above method, but press firmly all around the G-spot in fractional movements, stopping to ask her what she feels as you hold your finger still in one spot. If she feels nothing, massage this area on the G-spot slowly and firmly. Note her reaction and move on to the next area.
Love in the gutter. Run your finger like a window washer across the body of the G-spot. While you are doing it, ask her how it feels. Your goal is to notice how the G-spot's body dips down on each side, creating a gutter between the body and the vaginal wall. Insert two fingers, one on each side, and rub the gutters, moving in and out slowly, a couple of times. Ask her what she feels.
If she says she doesn't feel anything. If your partner has never found her G-spot or ejaculated, she may be completely unaware of its sensitivity. Believe me, if you are rubbing the upper vaginal wall as described in this section, you are rubbing her G-spot, even if she doesn't feel anything.
If your partner cannot feel G-spot sensations, assess the situation with this simple test. Using your fingers during foreplay, get a sense of the size of her prostate gland (G-spot) by feeling the upper vaginal wall, from the vaginal opening to where the bulge of the G-spot stops. Measure once when she is not aroused and a second time when she is. See if you can detect any increase in the size of her G-spot - and ask her what she feels, too!
If, you notice the G-spot is larger with arousal, no worries! From here, it will be a matter of awakening the G-spot's sensitivity. Continue using all the methods described in this chapter to slowly but surely awaken her spot.
If you can't feel any increase in size, it is likely she will not ejaculate any time soon. Here are a few possible reasons for this:
1) the stimulation is incorrect, or too brief,
2) she is not really aroused,
3) she is one of the 10 percent of women who have a very small G-spot or a G-spot located toward the back of the vagina's ceiling, or
4) she has not yet awakened to the natural sensitivity of her G-spot.
With time, it may be possible to feel "nodules" in the body of the G-spot. "I can feel these little "peas" through the vaginal roof, almost like a bunch of tiny water balloons that are at first empty, then fill up, and then deflate again after she ejaculates.
Expel the ejaculate manually. Once you have found her G-spot, things get a little more exciting. This next method is an advanced technique in which you will manually help her ejaculate. Once you are knowledgeable about and adept at stimulating her G-Spot, and you notice it becoming swollen and sensitive, you can "milk the pod" to achieve ejaculation. Your likelihood of success increases dramatically if you arouse her using more G-spot than clitoral stimulation.
Milk the pod. It may be possible to get your partner to ejaculate the first time, without an orgasm, by manually stimulating the prostate gland and "milking out" the ejaculate. Use the three methods described above to stimulate the G-spot, and then add some penetration stimulation. When her G-spot has enlarged in size and she is aroused, use your fingers and apply a "milking" motion from the tail of the G-spot down along its body. Alternate the milking motion with a gentle but firm squeezing and rolling pressing from the gutters.
Cautionary note: This level of stimulation is not recommended if your partner doesn't know what you are doing, and certainly not if she has reservations about ejaculating. She has to help you by physically pushing and/or mentally allowing the ejaculate to flow. Without this, the technique is likely to fail, causing discomfort and possibly bladder infections, because it leaves her with a lot of built-up fluid. Think blue balls!
How Much Ejaculate Can You Expect?
You can expect anywhere from a teaspoon to about half a cup, although smaller amounts are more likely at first and are completely normal:
Sound fun?
G-Spot Stimulation and Ejaculation During Lovemaking
Use your lovehandle - your cock - to try the following G-spot-awakening maneuvers. These techniques will help you become more aware of how your penis is stimulating her G-spot to create ejaculate.
Lovehandle Massage
Use the lip on the head of your penis and massage the tail end of her G-spot. Go very slowly at first, hardly moving, until you both can feel the G-spot. Slowly try to roll, rub, and massage the tail of the G-spot with your penis as you did with your fingers, in and out, side to side, and all around, in fractional movements. You can increase the speed after a few sessions, but if you go too fast she may lose the sensation. If she does, simply slow back down and proceed.
Heads up
Use the head of your penis to rub the body of her G-spot. Then try to locate the most sensitive area. For some women, this area may be barely inside the vaginal entrance. If so, gently and slowly pull out and push in. It's very exciting to use the rim of your penis to stimulate this area. Other women may like it a little farther inside the vagina, or outside the vagina and near, or on, the urethral opening. If your partner tenses up, remind her to relax and take a deep breath. Notice the difference in her response when her vagina is relaxed and when it is tense.
Once things have moved on to the point where both of you are experiencing the pleasure of a full and juicy G-spot, you will be able to enjoy the full range and intensity of exciting sexual connection!
All these methods may not produce amazing results the first time you try them. If a huge fountain of ejaculate does occur, consider yourself fortunate. It might take many tries over a considerable period of time to get a woman to ejaculate even a small amount, because you are helping to awaken an area which in many women has shrunk or shut down from nonuse, or that has been numbed out from too much intensive thrusting.
The most successful approach, therefore, is to incorporate these methods into your lovemaking, making progress bit by bit, as both of you explore. This gradual process of awakening the G-spot to create ejaculation is physically pleasurable, and each time it will feel like something new has happened sexually between the two of you.
Enjoy the process!
But keep in mind, not every woman finds G-spot stimulation enjoyable, few find it intensively painful.
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How To Court A Goddess
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Posted:Apr 13, 2015 3:20 am
Last Updated:Apr 24, 2015 10:57 pm
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How To Court A Goddess Womb*man
Dear men,
There are many types of women. Every type of woman has her own unique definition.
Goddess Wombmen, for example, are the most seductive and the most empowered women in the world. They love their body. They live in their body. And they fully express their divinity through their sensuality.
If you are a man interested in dating a goddess, be fair warned, she is Kali- Aphrodite. As Aphrodite the goddess of love she will envelope you with kisses and juicy sexual practices. She will glow and you will be in awe of her glow.
But, because she is Aphrodite, her love will span beyond you. If she wants to be sexual with a man, this is her prerogative. She cannot be contained by any man-- her “containment” is only found in her deep devotion to her guides’ voices and her connection to spirit.
When she chooses you to be her man, it is because you are showing up as GOD. She bows down at your feet and serves you as her one, because you have claimed yourself as King.
Remember, goddess women are KALI. Kali is cutting through your illusion of what a woman “should” be and taking you on journey to discover your own sacred masculine potential.
When goddess Kali shows you her dark moon, hold space for her. She will challenge you to become Jesus, Krishna, Buddha, Shiva…
She will cut away your beliefs that “This is how women are” in regards to the old paradigm.
All a goddess knows is love without abandon.
To date a Goddess, you must be embrace her, support her independence and honor her expression.
The Goddess knows that men who embrace the Sacred masculine are her equal and her counterpart.
To be clear, if you’d like to be with a goddess, you must be GOD.
If you are a man reading this, YOU ARE GOD. We LOVE YOU.
And we are blessed to be a goddess in your presence. ॐ
Always,
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RM??
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Posted:Jan 2, 2015 5:37 pm
Last Updated:Feb 4, 2015 3:14 am
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WTF does RM stand for in a username anyway? LOL, ive googled it and cant come up with anything. I feel just as silly as when i asked what a glory hole was. Someone break the news to me?
Raina
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