How we can help, maybe?
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Posted:Apr 9, 2011 9:26 pm
Last Updated:Dec 17, 2012 8:37 am
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Today I did a lot of reading spurred on by the story of the Peoria IL mayor and council going after club 307 and trying to shut it down. I don’t know anything about this club other than what’s in the articles that I found online, but it got me thinking about our lifestyle. (all swingers, and other alt lifestyle people) We have NASCA which seems to be on the decline, this is the only political org. that I know of for swingers. If there are any others I would love to know about them.
I have read 50 or more articles about local pols shutting down clubs for numerous reasons. Zoning seems to be the biggest tool that they use, by making adult businesses locate in seedy areas they are forcing owners to break the law to stay in business! I know that we would all enjoy having more choices of places to go. I can list all the reasons that people don’t want to become political about swinging, but it irks me. Here we sit and ask others to fight our fight for us, while we stand in the shadows, quietly cheering them on. A legal fund, sponsored by a national organization would do the trick, if every swinger in the US contributed just $5.00 every year we could all keep in the shadows and still fight the fight! I myself am not in a position to start such an org. but I know that there has to be someone out there that would love to take this on. This org. could also be a resource for club owners and event organizers, to help set up clubs in a legal manner. A quick breakdown of how I see this org operating.
For those who just want to remain anonymous, just make a of any amount.
For a individual membership $5.00 a year
For a couple membership $10.00 a year
For event organizers $100.00 a year (for this they would get legal advice and help with any legal issues that pop up, also they would get a e-book containing information on how to set up events to be safe and legal.)
Clubs $500.00 a year (for this they would get legal advice and help with any legal issues that pop up, also they would get a e-book containing information on how to set up events to be safe and legal.)
Those who have memberships would be asked to help politically by sending e-mails and signing petitions to politicians who are in areas where the pols and courts are trying to shut down “legal” clubs. I would have clubs and event organizers help raise funds by asking for donations at events, and spreading the word about the national org.
The most important thing that we can do is when we hear of a club being challenged is to financially supporting the club in question. Legal costs can build up quickly, so any and all help would make a big difference.
Canada did it they can now have clubs without being hassled. My congratulations to the people who had the will to fight big brother and win.
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Interesting day,
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Posted:Apr 5, 2011 7:13 pm
Last Updated:Dec 17, 2012 8:39 am
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The e-mails just didn’t stop today, we had several people write us and ask to be invited to our next event which is really cool.
But 3 e-mails stood out above all the rest. Here are some excerpts and my thoughts after reading them.
Hey you two, it was great meeting you both Sat night. We had a blast dancing and flirting and will defiantly be coming to your next party. Even though you weren’t the hosts for last Sat, you played the hosts much better than the “real” hosts did, we watched you all night, man you two can work a room. I don’t think that there was one couple or single that you didn’t talk to. We have been to several events with this group and have found it to be somewhat clicky at times, and you two are now the “CLICK BUSTERS”!! Thanks again for making this one of the best parties we have ever been too. See you in May!
Talk about and ego boost, after reading this I was sky high (as if my ego needs any boosting). This is just the way we are, we like to meet new people and if we have to “break” into a group to meet them we will. Both of us hate to see “clicks” form at any type of event and swingers events can be the worst. It’s up to the hosts to keep clicks from forming or at least to make sure that everyone is having fun.
K&L, sorry that we haven’t written sooner but life has been real busy. We just had to say thanks for making our first event one that will make us smile for ages to come. We try and make the next one. We just have to line up a overnight sitter, and Go shopping for new clothes…..lol
Once again this is the kind of thing that makes us want to throw parties.
Hey guys, We just wanted to let you k now that we were somewhat offended at your last event. It seemed to us that you ignored some of us, in favor of the new people. We have been to many of your parties as you know and from our view point you two are fresh meat hunters! Please in the future Let some of the other people there have a chance to get to know the new people too!!
OK this one really irks me!! Here is my response
Hey thanks for pointing out that we were doing our jobs as hosts. It may seem that we spend more time talking to new people than to those that we already know, because we do spend more time with them. As new people we know that they may be somewhat uncomfortable, they do not know anyone or very few. We “ARE” their contact, we are the ones that they feel most comfortable talking to. In most cases, they come to us and start chatting. If you want to be more involved with the newer couples I can suggest that you start posting to the boards that we list the parties on, and please join in chat and help welcome the new people, get to know them a little like we do.
K&L
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How we Seduced....
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Posted:Feb 14, 2011 1:08 am
Last Updated:Apr 30, 2024 1:47 pm
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Our friends. When we first started out in the Lifestyle, we were very young and inexperienced, we had no idea how to get together with other couples (this was before the net) So where do two twentysomethings look for others who might want to get in a naked pile?
Well we seduced our friends of course, we worked together on a plan that might just work. We invited couples over for dinner and cards, starting casually with spades or gin, then, when that got boring we would suggest poker. It would start innocently enough playing for chips. But then the dark side would come out. We would suggest that we make things more interesting and play strip poker. We have a version that works very well for not only getting people naked but to also raise the stakes after the clothes came off.
Everyone started with 100 in chips, when you lost your chips you could “buy” more with a piece of clothing. Once you lost all your clothes you could continue to play by “buying” more chips by completing a dare. These would start off easy, things like kissing someone or showing your privates (which everyone had already seen) to more intense dares such as, masturbating, sucking a dick or licking a pussy. As the game wore on and everyone was naked we would push the envelope further, To dares such as inserting objects, Cumming while everyone watched, intercourse with your significant other and then with someone else.
We got several of our couple friends involved in swinging this way. Once we had played cards with them once, we would invite them over again, if they accepted we knew that they were game to take things further. Let us know your story?
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Parties
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Posted:Feb 13, 2011 11:07 pm
Last Updated:Feb 14, 2011 12:44 am
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Every few months we put together an event for discerning adults, who like to party in a sexy, fun, no pressure atmosphere. Our events are held at bars in either an open bar meet n greet or as a bar takeover with only the bar staff in attendance other than our guests format. We also hold events at hotel ball rooms.
We try and make our events as safe as possible, In order to attend an event we request that you e-mail us with your name(s) and request to be put on the party list. If you are not on the list you will not be allowed entry to the event. Some of our favorite themes are:
Black Light, we replace all the lights with black lights and the guests wear clothing that “glows” in the light, there are also a lot of party props you can buy that enhance this such as makeup includeing lipstick, body paints, nail polish etc…
Mardi Gras, dress in the purple, green and gold. We supply masks and beads, a king cake and some fun games.
Pimps n Hoes.
We try and do a few icebreaker games at each event to loosen up the crowd.
A few of our fav’s are:
Pass the dildo where a circle of woman pass a double dildo from one person to the next without the use of hands, to a musical chairs theme, when the music stops if you are holding the dildo you are out. Very fun to participate in a great to watch.
Lap dance party, 10 women sitting on chairs with 10 guys giving them their best moves.
Check the package, the women try and guess who was the first guy standing in front of them, oh yeah the woman are wearing blind folds and the guys can’t talk.
All our events are Off-Premises so actual sexual play is saved for later in your home or hotel. We are all about meeting new people and flirting.
If you would like more info on our events please e-mail us.
K&L
All Pleasure No Pressure
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Parties
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Posted:Feb 13, 2011 11:03 pm
Last Updated:Feb 14, 2011 1:11 am
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Every few months we put together an event for discerning adults, who like to party in a sexy, fun, no pressure atmosphere. Our events are held at bars in either an open bar meet n greet or as a bar takeover with only the bar staff in attendance other than our guests format. We also hold events at hotel ball rooms.
We try and make our events as safe as possible, In order to attend an event we request that you e-mail us with your name(s) and request to be put on the party list. If you are not on the list you will not be allowed entry to the event. Some of our favorite themes are:
Black Light, we replace all the lights with black lights and the guests wear clothing that “glows” in the light, there are also a lot of party props you can buy that enhance this such as makeup includeing lipstick, body paints, nail polish etc…
Mardi Gras, dress in the purple, green and gold. We supply masks and beads, a king cake and some fun games.
Pimps n Hoes.
We try and do a few icebreaker games at each event to loosen up the crowd.
A few of our fav’s are:
Pass the dildo where a circle of woman pass a double dildo from one person to the next without the use of hands, to a musical chairs theme, when the music stops if you are holding the dildo you are out. Very fun to participate in a great to watch.
Lap dance party, 10 women sitting on chairs with 10 guys giving them their best moves.
Check the package, the women try and guess who was the first guy standing in front of them, oh yeah the woman are wearing blind folds and the guys can’t talk.
All our events are Off-Premises so actual sexual play is saved for later in your home or hotel. We are all about meeting new people and flirting.
If you would like more info on our events please e-mail us.
K&L
All Pleasure No Pressure
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Why we like this lifestyle
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Posted:Feb 13, 2011 11:01 pm
Last Updated:Feb 14, 2011 5:37 am
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What we like about this LifeStyle:
The people, after a long week at work, there is nothing better and more relaxing than to get cleaned up and go out to a bar, or restaurant and meet some new and old friends, have a cocktail or two and be able to be yourself, knowing that you can flirt with a hot woman or man, and not have to worry about what their spouse or significant other is going to think. You can talk and dance and dress sexy. You get to share looks that no one else around you understands except that group you are with.
We love the communication that this has opened up between us, knowing that we can share anything and not have the other judge us.
We love the intense feelings we get when getting naughty, the thrill of knowing that we are beyond society’s norms.
We love the freedom that the lifestyle affords us, where else can you let yourself be truly free.
Swinging allows us to be again even if its only for a few hours away from the pressures of everyday life.
The different styles that the people expose us to, the boundires that get pushed to their limit, making us better people, more accepting of others and the way they live their lives.
We absolutely love the incredible sex we have when we are alone together after a night or weekend of swinging foreplay.
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