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Penis Pics
Posted:Nov 13, 2013 1:30 pm
Last Updated:Dec 15, 2013 3:57 am
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Why do guys think women WANT to see a pic of their penis? I grew up as the of a professional race trainer. Believe me guys I am not impressed with how SHORT you are.
I would much rather see a pic of a guy's face or if he wants to semi hide, at least his body without his head/face showing.
If you look at my profile there are currently 91 pics with only one where my face is not in it. But I have been told I have a nice smile and pretty eyes so hiding my face would make a part of who I am to not work for me finding someone as a bed partner.
Not only that guys but if I were to agree to meet you in public are you going to drop your pants so I MIGHT be able to pick you out from all the other penis pic on here? (But then if you did you would be easy to find afterwards, you would be the one in jail trying to keep the other inmates off you.)
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"Hit and run" profile members
Posted:Oct 6, 2013 12:07 am
Last Updated:Nov 13, 2013 9:39 pm
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I don't know if this is happening to other members too, I am pretty sure it is not just me this is happening too, but recently I have had what amounts to as "hit and run" profile members looking at my profile. These are members that will look at a profile and when you go to theirs to see if they might be of interest you get the PROFILE TURNED OFF screen. Now there is a built in way you can look at a profile and not leave a trace you did so, this is an option that LesbianPersonals provides, and I use it myself. If you don't want to interact with someone after viewing their profile after all, use that option. But the "hit and run" deal is really annoying to other members and, at least with me, will earn you a one way trip to another LesbianPersonals option the Blocked Member List and possibly reported as abuse/fake account.
I am sure, as I said, I am not the only one this is happening to and the "members" that are doing it should really go somewhere else since they don't want what this site is for, interaction between people trying to find other people near them for possible sexual encounters. If this is not what they are here for they need to leave and let us that are here for that reason continue in peace in our search without their interference in our daily quest.
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Medical insurance and how they change the rules.
Posted:Sep 19, 2013 5:08 am
Last Updated:Oct 7, 2013 10:43 pm
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Seven years ago I had gastric bypass surgery, I had gotten to 415 pounds at the time of the surgery due to family history, (all my mother's sisters were large people). I was told by my Medical Insurance provider before the surgery that I could have all the excess skin I would wind up with after surgery removed, ( I have lost over 200pounds and have loose skin from it now). They have changed the rules a couple of years ago and are saying now "it is cosmetic and we don't cover that".
I had to have the surgery or right now the only way we would be talking would be through a medium talking to the dead.

Now, with the same provider, I am in another battle just trying to get an authorization for a MRI on my hip that is causing pain . I had one but due to stomach flu I had to reschedule so the authorization ran out. Sept 18 would have been the reschedule of the MRI. Didn't happen because the provider is playing games with the Dr's office. The Dr's office has so far sent a copy of my xrays of my hip to the provider 3 times now and the provider still claims they never got them. So IF an WHEN the provider gets their stuff together I have to reschedule AGAIN for the MRI.

Medical Insurance Providers are such fun to deal with.
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Blocked Member List
Posted:Aug 31, 2013 9:33 am
Last Updated:Jun 2, 2014 9:15 pm
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I use the Blocked Member List quite a bit. Right now I have 10 pages of under age, (the age where I don't feel like I am BABY SITTING the guy), and people who don't have the guts to post a pic.
If you are under 35, either sex, or don't have a pic and can't be bothered to fill out your profile if you view my profile you only are going to get one shot at seeing it. I will add you to the growing list of TOTALLY BLOCKED MEMBERS. Especially if you are from a different country.
Maybe this sounds unfriendly but I have taken the time to fill out MY profile and post a pic, currently there are 35 posted, I feel everybody else should too. If not stay away from me or get BLOCKED.
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Being married and playing solo, my case.
Posted:Jul 30, 2013 11:09 am
Last Updated:Dec 15, 2013 3:58 am
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Five years ago mother nature was unkind to my husband and I, he had a stroke. It effected his left side, as I have discovered most of them do, and he now after much effort and not giving up has only partial loss of total use of his arm and leg and hand. BUT it did leave him with ED. Up until the stroke we had had a very active sex life, both in the lifestyle and out, and even met at a swingers club in Vegas, 23 yrs ago now.
Well that stroke has put an end to it for now. For five years I have done without. I joined this site in 2011 as my current user name just looking for women to play with. After that turned into failure And having already tried to find a guy, under a different user name, and finding the guys here that I tried to meet all fell into the "granola bowl". Flakes, nuts and fruit. I gave it a rest for two years before I came back as I am now, BI. So far I have not met anyone but I have some good friends here and there are some possibles.
Also in the five years, after waiting and proving that he doesn't use Nitro (he had heart bypass surgery nine years ago), the VA has finally given my husband viagra. We haven't used it yet, are waiting for an after
encounter encounter of our own. Until then we are still looking for the right partner for me to break the doing without spell.
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Being married here.
Posted:Jul 30, 2013 10:28 am
Last Updated:May 14, 2024 11:48 pm
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If you are married here you fall into one of several types;

those that try to hide it by doing the "prefer not to say" bit

those that admit it and hope they are not found out by their spouse

those that admit it and their spouse knows about this (like me)

those that lie and claim single, divorced (probably soon to be when found out) widowed

those that play as a couple with their spouse .

Any of the above except where the spouse knows about their being here are putting both themselves and who ever were to meet them for the purpose of this site, SEX, in danger. In this day and age of violent actions by cheated on spouses it is not something I want to deal with and will pass on that person when ever I know they are married, unless I meet the spouse too and they know, like mine does, that they are having sex with others.
Sorry just me being safe and avoiding violent spouses.
And with that this bling says it all.
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The "No Picture Group"
Posted:Jul 10, 2013 9:08 pm
Last Updated:Jul 21, 2013 7:04 am
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I fully understand why some people don't post a picture with their profile and all the reasons they may have for it, but to me they are not being honest to either themselves or the people they are trying to meet through here.
If you are afraid of having your picture seen by either friends, neighbors, co-workers, or family then you really needed to think long and hard before you came to this site.
After all, unless you are just here for the thrill of belonging to an adult dating/sex site, you are here for the same reason everyone else here is for. That is to find a sex partner for either a one time thing or possibly a FWB thing.
Some people get lucky here and some don't but we are all in this for the same reason. Hiding from who you want to meet is NOT the way, at least with me, of getting anywhere. If you don't have a posted picture or at least a picture that you will share with me after contact through here, don't bother contacting me. You want to hide then PLEASE hide from me too. Other wise everyone is welcome to contact me and I will respond back to you. Who knows where that could lead to.
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People hiding here.
Posted:Jul 6, 2013 9:02 pm
Last Updated:Jul 21, 2013 7:04 am
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Some members think that by filling their profile with
lots of "prefer not to say" and no picture they are going to find people interested in them. What they really are doing is sending
a big signal that they are hiding and can't be trusted.
For me at least these people are not anyone I would want to get to know.
If they can't be honest here what says they can be honest
anywhere else.
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