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The Travelling (now) Flatbelly
 
Wandering Lifestyler - I am a tourist guide in Southern Africa which I enjoy immensely despite the challenges it delivers.

PS the pic is of me at Botswana's Makgadikgadi Pans - a place I have the privilege to visit on a regular basis
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touring
Posted:Feb 20, 2011 9:28 pm
Last Updated:Nov 9, 2011 10:23 pm
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Apologies for the absence - I have been and will be touring for a few more weeks and mostly away from Home

Chris
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well, home alone
Posted:Feb 3, 2011 10:23 am
Last Updated:Jan 7, 2012 8:29 pm
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right - its seriously hot here - lifes not bad - busy and all that the industry is good at the mo

Was contemplating a hookup for this evening - but then again - is it worth it?

So much to consider in life at any given stage I dare say

Chris
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profile update
Posted:Jan 31, 2011 9:59 pm
Last Updated:Nov 9, 2011 10:52 pm
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Having just gotten back to LesbianPersonals after the break I took - Im not sure how long the changes take when one updates and/or changes ones profile.

Any thoughts from all of you?

Chris
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Day Off
Posted:Jan 26, 2011 10:05 pm
Last Updated:Dec 1, 2011 10:26 pm
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Its yet another day off in January which is normally rather busy - this is getting a little boring.....

Freelance guiding and its dangers I dare say - oh well February looks busy as well as interesting. Something to look forward to (now to just work out how the budget is going to work for the next while lol)
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single
Posted:Jan 23, 2011 10:18 pm
Last Updated:Nov 9, 2011 10:53 pm
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I've been informed via facebook that Im now single......

or

not too sure yet.

Chris
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Weather and its ramifications
Posted:Jan 14, 2011 1:13 am
Last Updated:Jan 26, 2011 10:08 pm
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As those of you who've read my blogs before might remember

Weather affects my libido a LOT

Currently - its been very windy - and for the first windy while it wasnt an issue - now however it is - Im getting hornier and hornier as the (windy days go by)

Look - I know Im constantly horny but this is ridiculous!

Any advice or thoughts would be helpfull......

Chris
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birthdays and all that
Posted:Jan 6, 2011 9:15 pm
Last Updated:Nov 9, 2011 10:38 pm
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Well, the ripe old age of 41 has been reached.

I do rather hope this year is more exciting and rewarding than the last.

Im also rather hoping that my dear partner decides to get her mind around going back to the lifestyle as Im not too sure how long I can carry on not being in the lifestyle any more.....

Chris
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messages etc - what happened to it all?
Posted:Aug 28, 2009 12:17 am
Last Updated:Jan 14, 2013 1:11 am
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Well everyones seems to be doing this - if you would like to make contact then do it here.
I must say this (again) - Im here for the social aspect and NOT looking to hook up with anyone - please respect that.

now send me messages! (dont all rush at once! lol)

Chris

PS - Ill not make the comments public i.e., Ill use the preview function on this - this could be fun I must say !

Update on this - nice to know some DO read and leave msgs - it is very flattering I must say

Note - its getting awfully quiet on the message thingy all of a sardine!!!
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Boys and the Erect Penis in Public thing (continued)
Posted:Aug 1, 2008 2:02 am
Last Updated:Oct 10, 2012 1:36 am
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You might wanna read the first part abt this post a few blogs ago.

OK - so now having been bothered abt this for ages and having actually had the time to do some minor contemplation on the matter heres what Im starting to conclude:

Small weenies - I think all guys think theirs is in some way inadequate.

Juju/karma/voodoo - ok this ones a bit of a stretch - maybe showing yr "lil stiffy" in public makes guys sub-consciously scared that their "wand" might be disempowered by some form of mass-magic?

Pubic Hair - Ok so in the lifestyle - there aint that much of a pube factor - but more so among guys - most girls wax/shave etc some guys do - hey Im not embarrassed at all that I get waxed!

Piercings - maybe all the shy boys have piercings they dont wanna show - ok again a bit of a stretch. But im proud of my titanium adorned nipples - it was f***g sore to get done and now Im reaping the sensual rewards - walking advert?

And last but not least - homophobia - I think this one is the cracker..... Ever noticed how homophobic most men are? They'll very much welcome if not expect their ladies to be bisexual but are terrified of the concept of another man giving them pleasure. (which is bulls**t but anyway cos ... well I just know is all lol). So maybe its got something to do with their innate knowledge of self that they'd rather enjoy other men liking their weenies and the social condemnation that might go with that - that makes them hide it all away.

THOUGHTS and COMMENTS PLEASE! Id really love to know what everyone thinks of this - please say whatever u think about this - I think its a useable study of human nature

Chris
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colours and things on a blog
Posted:Jul 31, 2008 3:55 am
Last Updated:Oct 10, 2012 1:37 am
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Im having fun seeing what colours etc I can pop into my blog - please bear with me - or maybe wear sunglasses.. lol

Any and all suggestions will be considered

Chris



Not too sure which banana republics flag this is - but turquise'ish in a Reggae fusion sort of way seems to work for me - although I might just go with the same colour as my undies this morning! lol
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Scared to show an erect penis Syndrome!
Posted:Jul 24, 2008 2:13 am
Last Updated:Oct 10, 2012 1:39 am
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Something Ive been puzzled abt for some time now - several years in fact is the peculiar syndrome / behaviour of men (most it would seem) regarding their erect penises!

Those of you who attend or have attended lifestyle parties know that we tend to often end up in a pool or jacuzzi / hot tub where - to put it politely - its like that song abt mammals and the Discovery Channel! And with this people tend to get aroused - and which of course causes erections.

Now the bit thats puzzling me is this: when the guys leave said hot tub/jacuzzi/pool they tend to do so as quickly as possible and like a hermit crab moving into a new shell do it so fast the movement seems blurred!

What is it with being so embarrassed about having an erection? Its not something Im actually embarrassed about - and people do look at me me like I have a "screw loose" if i wander from the pool to somewhere else with my towel over my shoulder as opposed to tightly wrapped around my waist! I think the watershed happed in adolescence somewhere where i became accepting what I had been "dealt" as it were and if u didnt like it - well I didnt say u had to look Right!?

Id love yr feedback on this - what i perceive to be an oddity of human behaviour

chris

OK update on this seems to be that its typically a puritan thing - or in that general locality - so why is it that it doesnt bother me? I wasnt exactly brought up an atheist either and "good ole" South Africa was in many ways a puritanical place.......

Another idea is that its world wide even in relatively liberal countries Eg Germany - where i have lived too and experienced this.

I think theres a deeper meaning to all of this! something abt penis envy or ability to procreate being whisked away from us if we wave our erect willy's about in public
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the cancer thing
Posted:Apr 30, 2008 1:14 pm
Last Updated:Oct 10, 2012 1:44 am
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----///-\\\----Put This
---|||---|||---On Your
---|||---|||---Profile If
---|||---|||---You Know
----\\\-///----Someone
-----\\///-----Who Has Died
------///\-----Of
-----///\\\----Cancer
----///--\\\---Or Who May Be Suffering From It

I saw this on a friend of mines blog - Ive lost quite a few friends and family members to this awful affliction. Lets stay aware!

Chris

PS just been informed (as of 30.07.2008 ) that my late brothers husbands nephew has rectal and colon cancer the is 18yrs old - apparently fatal - any thoughts?
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