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Treasure every meeting, for it will never recur. 一期一会
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Masturbation in Porno Theater
Posted:Aug 29, 2006 9:22 pm
Last Updated:Aug 30, 2006 7:11 pm
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Although I am happily married, and having sex three to four times a week with my wife, I still enjoy masturbation... (as you may know, it is different feeling and can have full control)

So I often go to porno theater to masturabate, often by sneaking out from work.
At first I didn't know what's going on... but, I slowly start realizing that I am enjoying being watched, and some time, ocationally allowed someone to touch my penis, stroke it slowly.. (Surely, someone else's hand feel better than my own..)
I've seen couple having sex in the theatre, just performing beside me, that was also exciting... too) But more common things happening there is, many guy enjoying masturabation, I start realizing that it is exciting to see someone masturbating, erected penis in live, than porno movie itself.

I wonder if it is the sign of being bi-curious, or bi-sexual...
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Manner on E-mail
Posted:Jun 6, 2006 1:09 pm
Last Updated:May 12, 2024 3:45 pm
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I really don't know something happened recently, I start receiving all kind of E-mail, and sadly enugh, most of them are from male. (By the way, I have nothing against same sex marriage, and I may get into Bi-Sexual world..)

The lady whom I met last week expressed her honest feeling about this site (and she left from this site after only one week as member. She only met me during that week)
She said she received at least 20 E-mail from guys, some of them are sweet, some of them are just junk mail..

I have similar opinion.
1) Those E-mail less than 10 words (I want to xxxx you, your xxxx looks so good) has no chance to get any reply.
2) Those E-mail has other E-mail address or pointing to different site, I become very suspicious, so I don't want to get involved.
3) Those E-mail which doesn't include any point, any concrete idea, I will have hard to figure out what to say.
4) Those doesn't have introduction, and whose profile is totally doesn't mean any thing (all section said "Prefer not to say"), I can not reply.

Point I try to make is as long as I feel comfortable, I will reply one by one.
(I don't use those handy Quick Reply thing.. I personally think those who use this Quick Reply should be sent back to elementary school or charm school) I always accept Network if someone requested... it doesn't harm me anyway.

One incident happened, the guy keep sending me E-mail (all capital letter, which is hard to read) and he got into day dream, as if I promised him to meet him... I kept telling him "I prefer pussy than hands, than man's mouth, than man's anal", but he just couldn't understand that..
Too bad, I kick him out.

Let's have good E-mail practice which has very healthy manner.
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It is kind of sad to see bunch of penis....
Posted:May 15, 2006 10:39 am
Last Updated:Feb 20, 2007 6:54 pm
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All the sudden,
I start seeing guys (men) winked at me, invited me for his network etc...

It is kind of sad to see bunch of penis picture when I checked "Who's viewing me" area...
I'd rather see bunch of breast and pussy on that page.

Well, that's the life to be on this site, I guess.
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When married man is left alone...
Posted:May 11, 2006 10:41 am
Last Updated:Mar 15, 2007 7:19 pm
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My wife is away for two week,
even though I had intensive sex with her last night two session, it doesn't take long that my balls will be more than full of new sperm.

Yes, I can masturbate and release the tension, but that's the last choice...

Whm... Where should I go, it is not comfortable to go anywhere single man alone can..

Yes, I can pick up the in coffee shop, but it is too sad, I don't want to be one of those penis owner sharing pussy in unknown condition. (Therefore I've never used them)

Yes, I can go to strip joint, Brampton has a lot.. but that doesn't solve anything, in fact I ended up with more horny condition than before.

Yes, I can send E-mail to as many as I want to through LesbianPersonals,,, join the chat room, and wooing, but I know chances are rare...

Now, all I want is someone (Lady) who can eat supper with me, talk with me, watch TV with me, and probably give some hug, and sleep with me. (sleep on queen size bed alone is very sad..)
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First time is the last time....
Posted:Mar 13, 2006 6:01 am
Last Updated:May 12, 2024 3:45 pm
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Do you remember the first time?
It is always wonderful, even if there is difficulty and some confusion betwen two stranger.
No matter how that happened, (and quickly ended up with nothing productive) the most important thing is the fact that it's happened.

There is basic phylosophy in Japanese tea ceremony, saying that, each moment is precious and that moment will be gone (never comes back again), therefore use entire sprits to treat each encounter as best as you can.

Today is the youngest day in everyone's life, so do whatever you want to do when you can, do not postpone, and enjoy each moment by moment.
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Taking shower together, Good for environment too!
Posted:Feb 23, 2006 8:33 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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I enjoy taking shower together with opposite sex and washing each other, in fact I've been doing this for a long time.
(In fact, I get more excited on the situation where man and woman naked and getting wet and talking relaxed than intercourse itself.)

Think back the days where/when the couple just met and started dating, theree must be more excitement than now (after 20 years).
Is the sex color faded out? No... (I still enjoy it almost every day, Isn't it starange even now... that I don't get bored on sex even the physical (even any acrobatics style) activity itself is almost the same every time...) Probably it is helpful to maintain vigor and sexual desire by caring each others body/health.

It is also good, less utility bill, less water bill, and good for environment too.
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Is penis Grotesque?
Posted:Feb 21, 2006 9:35 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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Someone said that majority of ladies feel grotesque on men's penis.... whm... that's totally different from men.

I was reading/browsing through Medical book which contains only picture of healthy/normal pussies (mainly just close-up photo, but some are opened vagina for examination purpose). Since I am not a doctor, I don't read article, so just browsing through the picture...
Well, after seeing so many, I start feeling yes, it is kind of grotesque, but... I don't get bored at all. Each one is somehow different and if I look too close, I feel like I am going to jump into the opening.. (By the way, I'd rather see through panties than see directly since I love to use imagination what it look like, feel like, smell like...)

Back to the story of how woman feels on penis..
Probably penis is grotesque, especially when it is soft condition, covered with foreskin, because no part of woman body has that kind of shape, but at the same time, I think... penis must be somehow strange, but interesting object for woman and there must be some degree of curiosity in unconscious level. (Look at i-Pod, it is wonderful designed product, but.. it has similar shape as penis... and almost every product ladies use, has common shape, round top)

Those ladies, who feel offensive, please don't look... Please have sex only in dark.
Regardless what ladies feel, men is proud of his members more or less. and that's the reason, I switched back my profile picture to original cumming picture.
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The first sex of the year 2006 with my wife
Posted:Jan 2, 2006 9:40 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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There is no doubt that sex with wife (solid partner) is always the best even after so many years and so many times. (I always feel my penis fit perfectly to her pussy(
The problem is often boredom accumulated from the daily routine. (It is always nice to change something, and holiday season is good time to break routine work..)

I don't know/care much about how others spend new years eve night, but I prefer quiet/peaceful and romantic night to welcome new year. So I decided to take my wife to Spa with very classy setting room and dinner, located far away from home. (Those who familiar with Picton, probably you know where we went from picture, although it cost twice in new years eve night, it's OK)

After struggling to drive through slippy snow highway 401 for three hours, we arrived to destination and had dinner with red wine.
Then we got into bath tab where full of hot water together, watching down the lake below balcony. (Probably someone could see us naked and playing from outside, since all drapers were fully opened)
We were touching and washing each other.

Then we had sex across year 2005 and 2006. Funny thing, which I can't figure out is there was one extra second. (Well, the bed at the Spa was so comfortable that I could enjoy long slow session.)

Once in a while, it is very nice to have change the routine, location, time etc.. by this way, it spice up the sexual pleasure without finding different sex partner.
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the Fact of Japanese Oral Sex Monster/God Folklore
Posted:Dec 26, 2005 7:50 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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Silent Night, Horny Night...

This is the picture of Japanese oral sex monster, originally many people afraid of... but nowadays, people worship him in some area (for sexual power)..
As you can see, he has red face, and very long nose, and known to be very tall (consider 500 years ago, Japanese was very short, at most 5 foot in general)

This is the story/folklore told for many years...
This monster usually appeared near ocean, and assaulted the woman, (and occationally men too) so people was afraid of him. He used that long nose to please woman, and once assulted by him, that woman never go back to husband.. (or some case, his nose caused badly injury)

This is my theory.
Think back 500 years ago, country was isolated from export/import, but there might be drifting ship with caucasians (red face seems to be over exposured skin) on the board (Obviously he was hungry for food and woman). At that time, people in Japan was basically vegitalian therefore penis size was way too small compared with caucasian that time.. (Probably long/big nose indicated penis size) And probably, oral sex wasn't common at that time.

Yes, there is always true story behind the folklore. and this is proof people were kinky since long long time ago
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I'm glad I completed Shopping.... iDog, where are you?
Posted:Dec 23, 2005 8:15 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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Believe it or not,,, men don't enjoy shopping at all. It is rather painful to hang around mall searching for something.

As time changes, there is always hot item each year. Do you remember Cabbage Patch Doll in 80's? And Do you remember Elmo (Kind of red bear appears on Sesame Street) Doll in 90's?
I could manage to get both for my family timely... It is very interesting that many people think the similar way....

What is this years hot item?
Answer is probably iPod Nano and iDog. Too bad, I can not find iDog anywhere... but at least I managed to get iPod Nano...

Everybody, Have a wonderful holiday season.
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The Worst Reply of the Year.... I hate those quick Reply..
Posted:Dec 22, 2005 7:15 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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There are many good nature, warm heated people who try not to harm other's feeling even in sex site like here....
On the other hand, there are totally thoughtless, brainless persons here... Let me pick the worst three of this year. (I could request REVIEW on those persons, but I changed my mind since we're not in communist country)

1) "I don't respond to profile with erotic photo"
Give me a break, this is sex site.. then Don't show me Creamed open wide pussy on your profile.. Obviously she is dreaming about those high society class life style, but she doesn't know what she is doing.... (By the way, many people likes my horny profile picture... side effect is... I tend to get too many messege from gay man..."

2) "I'm only interested in single man"
Hun? This lady is also married, yet looking for discreet 1-on-1 sex... ????? I wonder what she is trying to achieve here... probably she is trying to get rid off current husband, and looking for the replacement (preparing for divorce)... what a dangerous woman!

3) "Sorry, I'm not interested in Gay man"
Hun? I'm not gay, not even bi-curious... I only sent him the thank-you-mail for posting on my blog (he said "I have something good for you")... but he became panicked and clicked/sent this messege three time... Obviously he is poor guy who never get laid from this site.. Don't be jealous, I'm enjoying here...

Anyway.... Be good! You don't have to share your miserableness to others... please keep it in your pocket.
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Lady who loves to watch men masturbating and cum
Posted:Dec 21, 2005 11:09 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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Since I am off from work,
I do enjoy masturbating on the WebCam during day time...(Well, I have to satisfy my wife on night, so I can do only one session during day time...) I personaly think we should be more open on masturbation since everybody is doing it.

Almost every day, different lady (mainly from European countries, because of time zone difference) send me a messege Cam-to-Cam requesting show her ejaculation. (and they seem to be satisfied when they see white creamed penis which start softening and shrinking....)

Now I start having a difficulties. I have one more lady who lives near my home and who is on my hot list and network, badly want to see it around 6:00 O'clock... (She's connected with other high quality messenger).. Even I eat a lot of oyster, goat cheese etc... which known to be good for men, it is tough for 48 year old men to ejaculate three times a day..

If anyone knows some food, good for producing semen (volume wise), please let me know... I badly need those....
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Everybody looks Happy! No ugly face...
Posted:Dec 20, 2005 2:05 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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It is snowing now, and we're approching end of year again.

Although I am enjoying browsing through this Adult Site and imagining some fantasies with prety lady (which may not happen), in reality, I've successfully managed to survive this year and I am glad I don't have to work till next year. Yes, another year passed by. (It was quick..)

Because of relax mood, released from pressure, (and of course, Christmas/Hannikah=Family season) I decided to take friends and entire family to biggest buffet restaurant in this city.

The building and parking lots, all tree are decorated/iluminated with primary colors so nicely and it looked so beautiful.
There, I saw full of smile, people eating whatever each individual's favorite with full happy face. (By the way, I like crab leg...shrimp, and honest opinion is...I hate turkey...)
There is no ugly people, when people is happy, all ugly expression will disappear from everybody.

I am glad that I am still in the position where I can smile and be touched by very small thing that other people may not even noticed.
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