Christmas Blues (balls)
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Posted:Dec 17, 2009 9:18 am
Last Updated:Apr 30, 2024 1:28 pm
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Well it is that time of the year again, the Holidays, though one of my favorite times of the year it is also one of those times of year when I start to feel a little blue. It doesn't help that I find myself single this year for the first time in 14 years and am still trying to find out what it is a single guy does with himself.
I have had a few dates, not a lot but a couple, I think they went really well but they were all with woman who live at least an hour and a half away from where I am so the logistics don't always work out smoothly when trying to arrange more dates. Because of this I am going on quite the dry spell now and my body is screaming at me.."hey we desire physical contact asshole, get off your but and go find a nice woman to spend some time with". Another thing I have noticed about this time of year is that most everyone is busy busy busy with family, holiday parties, work events, etc. and it makes it that much harder to find a date.
I did meet an very nice girl at a Christmas party last week, she flirted with me, I flirted back, she seemed like she might be interested in me however she was wearing a ring on her wedding finger..so I was confused. She didn't talk about a significant other, she was very flirty, and in our conversations with each other and other people she came off like she was very much single. This led me to wonder about the proper way to bring up this subject, I mean how do you just come out and ask someone if they are married or not? It just doesn't seem right to me to ask that question without coming off kind of rude or something. Maybe I am wrong but that is just how it feels to me. Kind of like a cheesy pick up line or something.
Well that is all I have time for today, write more soon.
T
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Dinner Friday Night
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Posted:Dec 2, 2009 9:14 pm
Last Updated:Dec 21, 2009 8:57 am
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Anyone remotely close to me interested in going out for some dinner on Friday night?
I haven't posted a blog in ages, am not feeling very creative tonight so figured I would just simply try to find a date.
Wish me luck.
T
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Off to Work
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Posted:Nov 3, 2009 6:05 pm
Last Updated:Apr 30, 2024 1:28 pm
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Here I am sitting in my chair, comfortable, relaxed, and totally not wanting to go anywhere but yet I have to get up and get ready for work. argh. Why did I agree to work an overnight shift I ask myself? Not to mention I am lonely and completely craving some physical contact.
Well I am off to work. Hope everyone has a wonderful night.
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Rainy Day Halloween
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Posted:Oct 29, 2009 9:22 am
Last Updated:Apr 30, 2024 1:28 pm
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Wow the weather is yucky today. Going to be spending the day inside staying dry. I am hoping that this weather goes away before Halloween, nothing worse then trying to Trick or Treat in the rain.
Anyone out there bored and want to chat? Anyone want to share stories about what they have planned for Halloween?
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Dom/Sub Curiosity
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Posted:Oct 23, 2009 7:29 am
Last Updated:Oct 29, 2009 2:56 pm
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Well I met an interesting lady online last night in the chat rooms. We had a wonderful and interesting conversation but come to find out she is married and her husband is what she described as a cuckold and in order to please him and excite him she is forced to become the dominate figure in the bedroom and she does this to please her husband but by nature she is actually a natural sub and is now looking to find herself someone to satisfy those needs in her.
Well this all seems very confusing to me but strangely exciting and interesting and I had a blast talking to her about it.
We discussed talking more on the subject and maybe eventually even meeting sometime if things work out. The problem is that I have very very little experience in that area, basically the only thing I know is what I have seen in movies or read about on the internet and I have not read much. So I was hoping that some of the blog readers out there might direct me in the right direction to places I could find information on how to be a proper Dom for a needy Sub.
I will take any information I can on the topic and I would love to talk to some experienced and happy dom/subs out there who would like to answer my questions and or give me some advice as well.
Well I am off to work, hope all the blog readers and writers out there have a wonderful day.
T
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Vacation for a Single Guy
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Posted:Oct 22, 2009 2:44 pm
Last Updated:Apr 30, 2024 1:28 pm
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I am thinking about going on vacation after New Years sometime and was hoping there were some members out there with some interesting ideas of places to go. I have not been on a solo vacation in many years and would like to make up for lost time.
Would love to hear about any vacation ideas other members or readers of the blogs have, suggestions good or bad would be great. I was thinking about Las Vegas but I have already been there several times so I was hoping for something a little different this time around.
Well I hope everyone is having a great week.
T
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What are the ladies of LesbianPersonals looking for?
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Posted:Oct 20, 2009 6:03 pm
Last Updated:Oct 23, 2009 7:30 am
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So my quest to find a friendly, sexy, intelligent, amazing woman on LesbianPersonals continues, my luck however has not improved at all. I have chatted with a few people include a few couples who I am interested in getting to know but no single ladies or even any married ladies who want to play without their hubby. I am beginning to wonder if there is something wrong with me.
I have listened to the advice from those who have answered my previous blogs, I updated my profile, I added photos including face shots, I blog, I have completed 85% of the extra profile questions. I visit the chat rooms, I post on the forums, I try to stay active, I have even played around with the cam rooms a bit. I don't send rude emails, I always read the other members profiles and try to follow the instructions to a T such as sending a picture with the initial email, or answering the questions they ask, etc.
So now I am not sure what it is I am doing wrong...I am beginning to wonder if the majority of people on here are not really looking to meet anyone, are fake, or are just game players. Anyone care to share any positive experiences with me that they have had due to a connection they have made via LesbianPersonals? I would even find it interesting to hear from others who have had the same experience as me and give me your thoughts on why this is.
Well I hope everyone is having a wonderful Tuesday night.
T
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Interesting Web Sites for a Lonely Day
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Posted:Oct 18, 2009 11:14 am
Last Updated:Apr 30, 2024 1:28 pm
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So I am sitting here alone today, nothing to do, the weather sucks, and I don't feel like going anywhere. So I thought maybe I would try to find an interesting web site or two to check out and enjoy. Does anyone have any suggestions? I want something sexy and dirty.
Thanks,
T
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Dating Sucks
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Posted:Oct 16, 2009 4:04 pm
Last Updated:Oct 17, 2009 8:58 pm
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I don't think I like being single....not that I have been single long because it hasn't even been a year yet but so far I am not enjoying it at all. Plain and simple Dating Sucks. Why are there so many strange people out there? I mean is it to much to ask that I have enough luck to find someone who is at least 80% normal??
Okay to be fair I have to admit that I have worried that it is me who is "not normal" and because of my lack of normality I am having a hard time finding a compatible "friend". I have a hard time convincing myself of this however. I think I fit into society pretty well and have always gotten along with the masses for the most part so I don't think my social skills are deficient. I bathe on a regular basis so I don't think my hygiene is in question. I even come with a half way decent education...so I am pretty sure it isn't me...I hope anyway.
So that brings me back to everyone else...so far in my very limited dating experience, since I have been granted (not willingly) my new single status, I have realized how hard it is to find someone I genuinely enjoying spending time with. Yeah there was a time in my life when I thought it would be amazing to be single and have a different lover in my bed every day or every week or whatever. But now that I have the chance and have had one or two "meaningless" sexual experiences I have realized that sex isn't that great unless you actual have taken some time to get to know the person first. This was the reason why I thought my ex was the perfect lover is because I loved being with her so the sex was mind blowing. Due to this realization I have been on a mission to find someone who has a similar mindset as me, is horny as often as I am, yet wants to be friends as well. So far my luck has not been great. I have found horny woman who just want to get "fucked", I have found married woman who just want to get "fucked", I have even found a few groups of woman who just wanted to use my cock as their personal play toy, but I have not been interested because all it would have been was a one night fling.
Yeah I know, I know, why am I complaining, most men would love to have several woman interested in "just a good fuck" but I guess I am just now wired that way anymore, I need more then that. Is that weird?
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Phone Sex
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Posted:Oct 13, 2009 4:06 pm
Last Updated:Jul 15, 2010 11:01 am
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I am curious to find out how many other people out there actually find phone sex enjoyable. I personally have a lot of fun with it. There is something about talking to a friend or a lover over the phone and just enjoying the sound of each others voices while you take care of yourself. It is safe, it is worry free, you can talk about anything that all parties involved find enjoyable, and it is so much better then just masturbating alone.
I am very interested in hearing from others on their outlook on phone sex, good or bad I would love to hear from anyone and everyone. What do you find enjoyable, what do you find weird about it, what turns you on or what turns you off. I think I have been enjoying phone sex since I was old enough to have my first girlfriend and I have always found it to be wonderful and exciting as long as the person you are talking to is interesting and imaginative.
Well just another curious blog to try and start up some conversations. Hope to hear back from someone.
T
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Friend with Benifits
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Posted:Oct 11, 2009 8:55 pm
Last Updated:Apr 30, 2024 1:28 pm
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I am just sitting at home bummed out again wondering why I am always so lonely. I have been trying for weeks to find one single lady friend in the area. No luck so far. There are plenty of ladies with posts but none of them ever answer an email. I keep my posts positive, upbeat, honest, and I always send a picture of my face as requested and still no luck. What is the trick to this? What does a guy have to do?
I have even tried making friends with woman who live long distance from me just to have a chat friend or someone to talk on the phone with and I haven't even had much luck with that. I mean I don't think I seem like a crazy or am that bad looking, I keep myself clean, I stay healthy and fit, but I feel like I have the plague or something.
Sigh, well that is my post for the night, I know it wasn't very cheery or exciting but just hoping for some feedback or advice.
Have a great night everyone.
T
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Couples are Confusing
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Posted:Oct 6, 2009 10:39 pm
Last Updated:Oct 16, 2009 9:03 pm
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Sitting here bored on a Tuesday night, doing a little chatting, contemplating life and wondering why it is so many couples out there want to meet single guys but when they finally do meet a honest fun and interesting single guy (me) one or the other of them ends up getting jealous, upset, or just uncomfortable with the situation?
I make it a rule to always talk to the couples I am going to meet (okay not that there have been a lot, 4 different ones in my life) however I have experienced the same type of situation for three of them. I always make sure I follow their rules, I always stay within the set boundaries, and all I ever ask is that they be honest with me as well.
Why is it then that when I follow all the rules, I try to be a good friend as well as a playmate, and I never ask for anything more in return then what I give that one of the two of them always ended up being uncomfortable or jealous? I have never in my life stole someones wife or girlfriend away from them nor have I even considered it before but it always feels like that is what they end up being worried about. Does this happen to other people or is it just me? I feel horrible inside when a couple gets into fights because of me.
I have never caused any breakups or anything like that, I usually find a way to just back away from the relationship so that I don't have to feel guilty about the fighting. Just curious basically if anyone else has experienced this?
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