I am sick of men thinking it is ok to use women. We get you are married and want fun. That's great but don't put a women down if she is bigger or not what you want. Be up front say it's a one night stand not saying one thing and than don't even explain. That's what makes me mad. But ladies it's not just men we need to state what we want and stick to it. So from now on my attention is only given to the people who tell me exactly what they want and how. No more games.