New Sex Toys
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Posted:Dec 30, 2020 12:31 pm
Last Updated:Jan 3, 2021 1:31 pm
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I am pleased to report that the new LELO sex toys I bought myself for Christmas are POSITIVELY, ABSOLUTELY FREAKING AMAZING!!!! The two toys that I got are clitoral massagers and I have decided that I don't need a real, human man any more. These two toys massage my clit so perfectly that I won't have to "train" another man to ever so gently lick and flick with his tongue my super sensitive, tiny little clit!!!
I made sure I stocked up on two new bottles of lubricants to keep my playtime nice and wet. Oh my gawd, the sonic massaging is just freaking amazing!!!
I know exactly how I'm going to bring the New Year in and it will be using one of these two toys!!!!
Come on 2021, I'm ready for you!!!!!
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Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year
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Posted:Dec 26, 2020 7:45 pm
Last Updated:Dec 30, 2020 4:48 am
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I've had a good Christmas. I gave my grandkids a real go kart, though it was an adventure for sure as the original go kart was crashed/rolled over within the first 2 hrs of riding. Took some doing but the original go kart was returned as defective and a replacement go kart was purchased and is right in the world of my grandkids I don't know who took it harder, or my grandson.
I did not get one of the presents that I really wanted and that was one of the two architecture legos of the US Whitehouse/grounds of the Whitehouse. I love the architecural Legos and was hoping that my grandkids would remember that's what I wanted. Instead my -in-law got me some smell good shower gel and lotions.
However, I got myself several Christmas presents. I purchased two LELO sex toys, the SILA, which is a clitoral massager and the SONA 2 CRUISE is a sonic clitoral massager. Both are mindblowing amazing!!! These sex toys are top of the line and definitely rewarding. I can't remember when I spent that much on sex toys!!
I am hoping to close on a real estate deal after the first of the new year. That will allow me to go forward with my patio oasis. I am hoping to have my swim spa and patio deck well underway. It's going to be the ultimate!! I am so excited!!!
So, I've had a good Christmas and plan on having a GREAT New Year!!!
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Smoothing Things Out
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Posted:Dec 11, 2020 5:46 pm
Last Updated:Dec 13, 2020 3:48 pm
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I am pleased report that I experienced my first full Brazilian waxing. Oh my, did it hurt when the gal ripped off the strips but my gal pal in Texas was right, it was an exciting kind of pain.
Yes, there are pics, but I want wait until the angry red bumps subside some in a couple of days and then I will post the hairy pussy before and the silky smooth bare pussy after pics.
I bought into the anti-in grown hair serum and all the instructions on after waxing care. Needless to say, I am sold on the process and signed up for one of the "packages" that will take me through at least waxings. When spring rolls around I am definitely going include waxing my legs.
What an amazing treat for myself!!!
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Something Exciting in the Little Things
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Posted:Dec 8, 2020 7:26 pm
Last Updated:Dec 9, 2020 8:48 pm
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I have a co-worker that I've befriended at my current job. She's a really nice and devout woman, about 52 years old. not sure what has happened to her in her life but she's got a lot of personal problems. I talk her off of the ledge every other and she prays for . I appreciate a person that is true to their faith.
She surprised today by revealing that she and a friend go to the European Wax Salon here in Tulsa every 5 to 6 weeks for a bikini wax. She loves the way it feels!!! OMG, I was truly caught off guard but completely intrigued. I've always wanted to go and get a Brazilian wax but never found the gumption to go on my own. I've had friends both in and of the swinging lifestyle that have sworn by waxing but again, I've never ventured and had a wax of any kind.
Well, something came up today that my co-worker had to cancel this evening's appointment and reschedule for Thursday evening. I decided to get there and get my first waxing experience. Ischeduled my own waxing appoiintment. going to go for a full Brazilian wax. I can hardly wait!!!
I have a special gal pal in the swinging lifestyle that lives for her Brazilian wax, She's shared with how amazing the experiences are...such a painful but delightful experience, that pain/pleasure mixture that turns us both on like nothing else...well, there are a few other things that turn on but for now, going for my first Brazilian waxing sounds like a perfect expeerience on the cusp of being quite sexual!!
so excited!!! Stay tuned for my report from Thursday evening's experience!!!
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Quick Reflections
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Posted:Dec 6, 2020 8:23 am
Last Updated:Dec 7, 2020 7:48 pm
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As the days tick by of December of 2020, I find myself rather depressed. I just can't seem to shake this all alone feeling, though I have family and friends that I talk to on the phone and I get to see my grandkids, I miss my old man, my husband. I miss the naughty, nasty fun that we enjoyed for most of the 20 years we were together. I'm trying to put that all in its place and move forward with my life. I'm getting there but I'm finding it a slow process.
I am disappointed that the high school boyfriend hasn't worked out. We still text but it has become a deadend. I can't help but wondeer why, why doesn't he want to rekindle this friendship to a full blown sexual friendship. Probably best I don't know and I have made myself promise to not waste any more time trying to figure it all out or whatever in the hell my mind takes me.
I did contact a guy that I had an exchange with on this site. I even went so far as to request to check out his physical attributes live and in person. That was kind of a fleeting desire because life happens and I'm busy with my family and grandkids. And the reality is that my sexual attention span is super short these days. Why should I bother with a live and in person man with a hard cock when I can take care of any tingling between my legs within a few minutes and get back to my many projects???
I like the thought of putting this man on my massage chair and making his cock as hard as I can. I even like the thought of working his cock with my hands until I make him beg to let him cum...but other than that, I have no desire to allow this man to explore my "stats" or in other words, explore my naked body, especially my pussy!!
The more I've thought about it this week, the scenario of inviting this guy over, having him get naked and then putting him on a bed or on the massage chair, I like all that, making him hard, teasing him until he explodes in his orgams, but after that, I want him to leave. I don't want to provide the same opportunity to explore and experience me.
I am chalking this mindset up to me not wanting to put forth any more effort than is absolutely necessary. The lazy mindset, which it really isn't me being lazy, its me being particular. I don't want to put myself out there, I want to play to the extent that I want to play and that's all.
Then I miss least-favorite-submissive because he sort of got this mindset of mine. He would have loved to have spent more time in my company but he served his purpose, he submitted to my whims and whimsey and then be on his way. We both got what we wanted out of that arrangement. I don't want someone that wants me to subject myself to what they want...I'm selfish right now. Who knows if that will evolve into a more equal type of sexual encounters but right now, that's the extent of what I want, I want to have my way and send the guy on his way.
I'm waiting for my new LELO sex toy to arrive. It is supposed to suck my clit and provide all manners of amazing pleasure.
Have a great week ahead and stay safe!!!
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Getting Into A Festive Mood
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Posted:Dec 2, 2020 2:14 pm
Last Updated:Dec 6, 2020 8:23 am
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My profile pic is a treasured pic that I took way back when...I have taken most of the pics that are here on my profile/account. I especially like the profile pic I've chosen fo
Christmas.
This pic was done on one of those miserable afternoons when my late husband was resting before we headed to Dallas to a swingers partyhouse for the night. I took the opportunity to use some handy props to take pics of my pussy with the various decorations partially inserted or laying up against my pussy.
I think I did a pretty good job at creating some erotica with my pics. The disappointing point in my life when I thought a co-worker was a true friend and someone I could trust turned out to be a complete and total sham. This gal was out to destroy me and did her very best at creating this horrible image of me. It turned out well for her in that I got "let go" from what I have referred to over the as my "dream job." I worked in a big law firm and thoroughly loved the department I worked in. That is until this gal turned on me and pretty much turned everyone against me, labeling me as the sexually diviant "older" assistant. Thus making me the logical choice "let go" when the firm started trimming down the verious departments.
This gal and several others stayed. I was "let go" and not too long after I was let go, this co-worker turned the attorneys in the group onto the fact that I was a "swinger" and had a profile on a sex dating site. The poor smucks created a profile so they could spy or watch what I posted on this website. I even saw where the other assistants that I worked with made rude comments on another social media website about the props I used on this website...at first I was terribly hurt that these gals ridiculed my pics and me for what they thought I was doing. Then I realized, none of them really had a clue about what the swinging lifestyle was about nor what I am about.
Now when its time to post Christmas pics, I get a out of this pic because it grossed those gals out, though I don't kow why, I think I have a very pretty pussy. But they were also disgusted because they thought I had spent my spare time trying all of the Christmas decorations out that I had bought with my own for the department Christmas tree, they decided that I must have put all of those ornaments into my pussy. Wow, even I don't have a crazy mindset like that!!!! LOL
So, sort of mixed emotions when I look at my sexy, erotic pics. My life is so different now. The dream job was so long ago and now I'm making more than I ever would have at that job. I am not nearly as stressed and the day goes by pretty fast and I'm NOT subject the mean ridicule of women that have no clue other than what is within their own little worlds.
What a bunch of rude, stuck up bitches!!!!
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HAPPY THANKSGIVING
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Posted:Nov 25, 2020 9:58 am
Last Updated:Nov 29, 2020 2:14 pm
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I'm going to be cooking a Thanksgiving feast for a small part of my immediate family. They will be stopping by on their way out to western Oklahoma for a family hunting trip.
I took off work on Friday so I can get my Thanksgiving decorations put up and get the Christmas decorations out and ready to go up throughout the rest of the weekend.
I hope everyone has a great Thanksgiving and stays safe.
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It's Bedlam in Oklahoma!!! BOOMER SOONER!!!
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Posted:Nov 21, 2020 10:47 am
Last Updated:Apr 27, 2024 7:42 pm
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It's Bedlam Saturday here in Oklahoma!! Tonight will be the first Bedlam game played in Norman, Oklahoma at night. This game has been played at night in Stillwater before but not in Norman.
I'm excited and hoipeful that my Sooners will win!! My grandkids are coming to spend the night with me so I will have company tonight watching the game.
Boomer Sooner!!!
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Finally Friday
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Posted:Nov 20, 2020 9:20 am
Last Updated:Nov 20, 2020 3:05 pm
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It's finally Friday. It's really not a whole lot different than the rest of the week other than I get to sleep in a bit tomorrow morning.
The big OU vs. OSU game (Bedlam) is tomorrow night. ESPN Game Day will be in Norman, OK tomorrow, so I'm looking forward to watching those guys.
I'm hoping to get started on my swim spa installation here in the next couple of weeks. I have been waiting to be put back on the list and I now have the financing all worked out, so hopefully, just hopefully by Christmas I'll be enjoying getting out in the swim spa every day and working out. I will also love the jacuzzi part of it for working out the stiff and sore muscles. I can hardly wait for my new privacy fence to be installed around my backyard and a new steel framed gate across my driveway. My vision of my "fortress" will be complete once I've got everything installed, up and running and the privacy fence in place. Merry Christmas to myself!!!
I'm not sure I'm looking forward to next week, Thanksgiving week, though I am looking forward to a 4-day weekend next weekend. I got approved to take leave next Friday, so I'm excited about only having to work 3 days next week. It will be time to get my Christmas decorations out and up, get my Thanksgiving decorations put away and ready for the Christmas season.
Have a great Friday and a great weekend ahead!!
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Am I Lazy?????
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Posted:Nov 19, 2020 11:35 am
Last Updated:Nov 20, 2020 8:35 am
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I've been thinking about why I simply don't want engage in trying find a good selection of naughty, nasty playmates and I've come the conclusion that I'm simply lazy!!
I don't want screen and re-screen the potential list of playmates. Then is the process of trying figure out if a guy is worth venturing forth and meeting over a cup of coffee in a public place.
I don't want do endless emails see if is any interest on my part or the guy's part...I don't want exchange pics or and or sext.
I simply don't want put forth the necessary effort find viable playmates!!! Does that make me lazy??
When the deceased hubby was alive, I felt much more safe and confident that I could go forth and explore and experience because he was always close by. He was always within a phone away and could be at my side within moments if he needed be...I don't have that anymore and I dont know if I'll ever have again.
I seem get really overwhelmed when I start going through profiles, pics and such. I have had cut off corresponding after a few emails because the guy started exhibiting possessive tendencies and asking why I hadn't emailed in a couple of days...seriously.
Anyway, if this means I'm lazy, so be it.
Do you think I'm being lazy?
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Hump Day Hello
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Posted:Nov 18, 2020 11:06 am
Last Updated:Nov 19, 2020 11:24 am
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I just realized it's been quite a while since I've posted in my blog. I'm just not in the mood to consistently post any more. Funny, but there was a time when I could hardly wait to sit down and check out what is going on with the blogs that I follow and post of what I was currently doing or thinking about.
I'm still working from home. I sat down and thought about what date it was that my office sent all of us home to start working from home and I've been at home for a solid 8 months now. I continue to work from home with no projected time frame to return back to the office environment because here in the state of Oklahoma, the numbers of COVID19 continue to rise. Since there are 300 people that work in my office, there is no way the higher ups are going to bring everybody back just to send us back home.
Don't get me wrong, I enjoy working from home. I don't have to get up and around in the mornings, just throw on whatever, grab a cup of coffee and get the laptop pulled up and ready to tackle the work day.
The hardest part about working from home is that I'm home alone every day, all day long. I've got the cat, she's started spending more time around me, even meowing at me from time to time. She was my deceased husband's cat and wanted nothing to do with me after he died. I finally figured out to not feed her until she comes and lets me know she's hungry. She has even started hanging out with me during my work day, laying in the sun where she can watch me and listen to my side of the phone calls.
I have been to dinner with a few friends. I just am not in the mood to move past being friends and then here lately, I don't even want to go out to dinner with a friend every now and then.
The highschool boy friend didn't work out very well. I was content to have him come over for dinner every now and then but he started declining every time I invited him over for dinner. I am assuming I am too fat for him. He never would respond as to they why he started declining so, I finally weened myself off of his company. I think I was desperate for adult company and conversation. We did talk and talk and nothing else. I thought we were getting along great but that shows you how much I know!!!
I would enjoy finding a male friend to get together for some sex every now and then but even that seems like too much work to bother with, good thing I have a couple of BOBs that can take care of myself - quick fixes!!!! lol
I am really looking forward to the Christmas present I got myself. I am hoping, just hoping all of my financing is going to fall into place over the next 45 days and I will be enjoying my patio oasis with my new swim spa by the first of the year. It may be wishful thinking on my part, but hey, why not???????
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Sunday Reflections 08/20/2020
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Posted:Aug 30, 2020 9:35 am
Last Updated:Oct 19, 2020 9:20 am
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As we wind down August of 2020, I'm feeling like this crazy nightmare of 2020 will never end. It was a crazy week. I was glad that my HS boyfriend did not want get out Friday night and join for dinner. Why did I even ask him? Because that's what I do Friday nights since I got back from my vacation at the end of June 2020.
I've decided that I'm going start planning my next vacation, next June 2020 Florida with my , his wife and grandkids. I had a better time than I wanted admit and it was so good for get away from Tulsa and just relax. Now that I have been, I know how pack clothing wise and what expect with regards I've got be in better physical shape.
I started riding my spin bike again these past couple of weeks and it is slow going for sure. Hopefully I'll see some progress over the next few months. I'm determined look and feel better for next summer's vacation. I've got get this ol'fat body back into shape.
So, a little health scare at the beginning of the week was resolved Tuesday morning. Good go for another year. There was a hiccup in the overall financial process that I've been working for the past month and a half. I may have good news this week on that hopefully by the end of this week. The work issues, political, that state of utter chaos and confusion over the state of things on a national level, well, I've got stop watching so much national news because its going come down the election in November. I have got stop letting it upset and throw into a state of depression.
Will 2020 ever end???? It seems like the same ol'same day in and day out, working from home, not wanting to go out and about because nothing is as it was. Shopping isn't fun any more, shopping online is definitely not the same as shopping in person. I am hoping that my finances will allow me to continue to fix my house and make my home oasis even better than it already is.
So, August is coming an end, what will the Fall of 2020 look like??
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