If you don’t get it, you won’t get it.
Gentlemen, you need to get it…People want to be treated like people.
The reason you don’t get it is because you don’t get it.
OK yes, you can call this a sex site. Sure. But does that mean that ladies are going to just have sex with every guy that asks them to? NO! It does not!
How about instead of saying dumb things, or jumping right into asking to meet, you spend some time to get to know someone on here? You know, maybe chat with them for a while, maybe a few times, as close together as possible? Maybe talk about stuff other than sexual matters?
I am talking about basic social skills. Have a little game when you talk to a lady. And I don't mean crudeness, I mean treating someone the way you expect people to treat you in real life. I am talking about having at least some basic social skills.
if you don’t get it…then you won’t get it.
Got it?
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Social skills are rapidly devolving in our world. Thanks for trying to enlighten the many who need it. Wishing you well.
I 100% agree! The number of men who don't read profiles, send messages that are down-right rude, or can't take rejection is astounding. I am here for my own pleasure, no one else's.
most of them have zero game... they don't even know how to talk to someone
More women need to realize that men are back in control now. women need to obey and do what they are told.
wow...you should make a blog!
@VioletDeliriums, nah, the toxic incel MAGA cultists are already saying way too much stupid stuff as it is. 😉
And this is why you are not getting any.
I would rather not get laid than put up with men like you
Well said Violet, and so true. Between the comments or the pictures sent with a comment, most are just plain rude an tasteless.
Perfectly said, kindness and understanding , instead of saying something crude, rude, or mean just walk or click away. Everyone has feeling that should be respected.
It sounds like a rant, but I think you love to write. I too enjoy writing. Being on this site is fun for my creativity
This is so true. So many guys think this site is a replacement for Backpage or Craig"s List
I also prefer to chat a few times before meeting. And always meet in public first. If you can not why would you expect me to feel comfortable enough to have sex with you?
as fer myself being a bi male i don't see point in being disrespectfull after all you are human
You must consider that almost 100% of bi men on this site are not looking for love or longterm relationships with women, men or MTF trans. A great majority of us are turned on by women and FTM trans as well as bi and lesbian women making love. Probably 95% of married/divorced bi men whose marital sex life is or was boring, infrequent or non-existent would rather meet a man or couple for sex more than they want to meet str8 women. The same thing probably applies to MTF trans. Would many of us love to be with a (pardon the vulgarity) "chick with a dick" ? Hell Yeah we would !! Be selective and not nickpicky. And you should stop moaning about not ever (yet) meeting your perfect man just like str8 & bi single/married/divorced women do. It is they who drive many of us older men to be bisexual. We surely don't want a repeat of that with any woman again. We just want hot, kinky sex with men and trans men. We don't want deep love, monagamy or marriage with all the drama, possessiveness, and expense. You will find that a great number of us would love a FWB who is MTF trans.
You do you. I am sure you can find something low quality...and good luck with it.
In other words you want a hooker without having to pay.
Sorry if some of us are picky in who we choose to have as FWB
When I receive a message, I always ask if they have read the profile esp. if they are not what I am looking for. I strongly believe that most of the men on here should only have transactional sex...it does not require personality. This way, the woman is being paid for a service...she does not have to like the guy. Also, who knows how many are walking around with cock-rot.
yucky
How am I to take anything you say serious? When you call your blog VD"s Clinic, as in venereal disease's Clinic! Might as well call it STD Clinic!
i suppose if you look at one thing, it is easy to judge negatively. i am really not asking you (specifically) to take me seriously. if you don't, it will not change my life at all.
Or think a dick pic is the best way to get a womens attention. I think guys forget that the LARGEST SEX organ is the BRAIN.
I am embarrassed by some of the the comments that I read on various blogs.
what do you mean?
@VioletDeliriums ~ rudeness, seemingly entitled.
@6shivashakti9 oh ok
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She is a doll wowo
Very nice , but maybe say it louder because some don't like to read because they can't comprehend.
then they shouldn't chat either...because chatting requires reading...problem solved.
Very well spoken
Thank you.
Well said 👠👌