Beyond Monogamy - An Asian Man's Journey into Wife-Sharing (Part 1)

I first stumbled upon AFF many years ago, during its early days on the web. It quickly became one of those secret digital corners I'd return to time and again, especially drawn to the communities exploring alternative lifestyles. Back then, in the 1990s, the internet was just beginning to make its way into everyday households - mine included. It was a slower, simpler time, when logging on meant waiting through that familiar chorus of dial-up tones, a sound that now sparks an odd sense of nostalgia.

Those were the days of exploration - not just of technology, but of identity and desire. Mainstream media didn't offer much space for people like me, curious about unconventional paths, about the edges of intimacy that didn't quite fit into the traditional mold. But AFF did. It was more than just an erotic site - it was a portal into a world that validated feelings I hadn't yet put into words. It offered me knowledge, fantasy, and a strange kind of companionship. I wasn't alone in my thoughts. There were others - many others - also seeking, also learning, also feeling.

Never in my wildest imagination did I think my wife and I would one day be meeting our first playmate - and a few subsequent ones - from AFF. Yet here I am, after almost a decade of exploring an unconventional marriage, ready to share a piece of our journey with the world. Not for attention or applause, but because I believe our stories - no matter how taboo they may seem, especially in the part of the world where I live - deserve a space. A voice. A chance to be told.

To be continued...